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I finally did it!

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Well, after much thought, I realized I've been trying to break up with my guy for three weeks now. But every time I tried he convinced me some how not to, that he would change.

Finally this evening I called me and decided to be assertive. I told him that we couldn't go on like this, and that I needed to break-up with him. Thankfully after thirty minutes of talking through things he agreed with me that it was the best thing to do. We didn't want a relationship that was "on a break" hanging over our heads. And I'm glad that I gave him a chance to see where I was coming from. Now it was a mutual break-up...although it is gonna hurt, I know it was the right thing to do.

I feel like I accomplished something today. I did what my friend advised me the other day...I did what was best for me.
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    I would tell you the same thing I would tell my daughter, DID tell my daughter ... if he has to promise to "change" then he is not going to change.

    Scratch that. If he has to be told he needs to change, he isn't going to change. Get out of that relationship.

    Good for you.

    And when he comes crawling back (Oh baby I love you. Yada yada yada.) know that it's all balderdash. Kick him to the curb and move on.

    1640 days ago
    Good for you. It's hard to make relationship decisions like that and often harder to follow through. Congratulations for recognizing what you need right now.
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