Wednesday, September 18, 2013
I have a tendency to wait for months or years at a time for someone to come to their senses. Whether itís a guy Iím pining over or an old friend I wished would come back into my life.
There just comes a point when it hurts too much to keep waiting. Youíve taken all this time that could have been spent making memories dreaming that something would just happen or change. Itís hard to take sometimes that that person isnít interested or too selfish to care like you want them to.
You have to step back sometimes and just take a breath. Is this person really good for me? Or are they holding me down? You have to really look at the time youíve given the situation and know when to cut your loses.
Okay, itís been three months he probably isnít that into you or is too self involved to appreciate how absolutely franking awesome you are. And you are awesome. Donít sell yourself short, waiting for the knight in shining armor. Heís probably up a tree in a tin foil hat anyway. Sometimes you pick it up and move on.
Love and friendship is sweeter when itís given as well as taken. You are worth more than what little they give you. You are an unbelievably genuine person and waiting in good faith for what may or not be is just wasting all the good memories you could make for yourself. Stop dreaming and start doing it!
You are the hero of your story.