Tuesday, September 17, 2013
I have received a civil summons over property I lost in my first divorce that they want me to pay over $70,000 for! I thank the man above for giving me brains enough to take care of myself and file bankruptcy so I wouldn't be responsible for any of the $200,000 worth of debt that--yes we had racked up, but he got everything--so that I could start over with a clean slate.
And this morning my oldest daughter gave me a lecture on how I should treat my grandchildren (none of them are hers she has none) when I am trying to help them!
My grandson and I were working on his homework and he was tired and cranky and having a fit because I wouldn't tell him the answers. And I told him if he wasn't going to help himself then I wasn't helping him either! But if he wanted to work it out with me I would help him. Well wa wa wa
and so I started to leave and he was crying "no help me help me". We finally got it done also! But the daughter seems to think I should have just walked away and not done anything. My question was "how is he supposed to learn if you don't help him?" and her answer "just leave him alone to do it"
. Well it was spelling words and he didn't know what the word was and he had to use it in a sentence. I was trying to get him to sound it out so he would know the word and he wanted me to just tell him. The final ending--he sounded it out and he wrote a sentence for it! Grandma is way more stubborn than he is!!
So I guess the bottom line is--with both scenarios was I wrong??
Friday cannot get here soon enough!!
Oregon coast here I come!!