I GOT THRU my GD's Bridal shower,,, afterwards?
Monday, September 09, 2013
HI ALL you DAWGGIES and FRIENDS !!
How did I DO at my GD's shower? DAWGWONDERFUL !!!! It was NOT easy at ALL !!It WOULD OF been, but !!!! Shortly aftah the shower started,,, here's what happened.
There's a "committee" here, they FEEL they RUN the building. Of course we do NOT agree with them.
Jane: "DIANE !!! DID you Reserve the ROOM?" She was LOUD
Diane: "Yes, thru the Landlord , I called them first."
Jane: "That's NOT HOW TO DO IT !! U HAVE to have "THE COMMITTES' PERMISSION !! At the Landlord they have NO IDEA ON WHAT WE ARE DOING " `!!1 With her hands clenced,, and arms flaring around.
Diane: "In the other building we always had to let the Landlord know, they wrote it down in their book."
Jane: "You NEED THE COMMITTEES PERMISSION" !!!!
Diane: " I wasn't aware of this, I first looked on the elevator and the bulletin board to see how to do this".
Jane; "YOU DID THIS WRONG !! U NEED OUR PERMISSION !! Did you TALK to ANY of US?"
Diane: "No, just the Landlords".
Jane: "You NEED OUR PERMISSION" !!
Diane: "Ok, the next time Ill do that."
She was soo ANGRY !! EVERYONE in the room,,, 25 ish guests,,,, were STOPPING to see what was happening, and it's a HUGE ROOM !! But she was SOOO LOUD !!
After she FINALLY Left,,,, I was shaking, though I did NOT let anyone , but one friend know this. I kept my hands down besides or under my legs. Keep in mind,, she was standing right in front of me,, aggressively as I was in my power chair. I feel she was doing this as a means of "antagonizing " me to getting as angry as she was. I AM NOt that way,, I totally kept my cool. Afterwards, my friend said "Diane, you did VERY WELL with the way she was behaving". " She isn't one of us, you can tell by her behaviors" (We are all of a certain religious association,,, and we do NOT believe in making a situation like this, or a "Show" of losing it as did Jane,,, we are very peaceful on most things. NO ONE is of course perfect.
I was DEEPLY EMBARRASSED by this, and it TOOK AWAY MY JOY of my ONLY GD's Bridal shower, I prob attened, whereas my other GD who I am NOT as close to,,,lives in Co. THis one,, I helped to raise. I can't BELIEVE she felt "entitled" to MARCH ON IN, and make a SPECACLE of herself !
I hardly ate at the shower. I DID KEEP AWAY From ALL JUNK FOOD !! Eating tiny meatballs (2) a few tablespoons of potato salad, a few TBS of cole slaw and somerhin with rotini shells in it,, I think that was a salad also. This was ENOUGH.
HOWEVER !! Later on,, after sleeping for 7 hrs,,,for I was EXHAUSTED an dso OUT of it. When I woke up ,,,,, I DID have a piece of cake,, and 1/8th of a crème horn with a cherry on it. I did NOT want to binge tomorrow for this.
THANKS FOR READING !!! If Jane had NOT of been confrontational , I DO NOT think I would of had the sweets. I am soo UPSET by this.
DO NOT WORRY, I AM writing (have already) to the Landlord, who owns several high rises in the city,,, to let him know of what it was which occurred. I also have a friend who lives in the building,,,,, and also wrote on my behalf since she was at the shower also. Many will if I ask.
THANKS ALL for the understanding. tomororow is ANOtHER DAY !!! I can RESTART again tomorrow.