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a little vent, well because.....


Monday, September 02, 2013

Ok so yes we are all trying to lose weight and get healthy, and I know every comment that shows progress on my part is great, but really I have to say it out loud, if you see me walking down the street, turn to me and say, "hey Tonya, your looking fab, you've lost some weight, great job" end comment here please, or some such thing. Don't, please don't follow with "yeah I can see it in your face and boobs".....ugggghhhh that's my little vent for today, cause really, I'm working my butt off to get there, and somehow my face or boobs looking smaller just isn't my top priority,. Maybe it's only me, maybe I'm selfish, but just saying, yep your looking good and I can tell you lost weight is enough, don't point out where, unless you're gonna tell me my ass or gut look smaller, then feel free to elaborate! lol

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-AIMIE- 9/3/2013 1:15PM

    I don't care where it comes off as long as it's leaving. BUT I do have to say that for myself I know I lose it in my face, my waist and my boobs first. I told my grandma the other day I'll be happy when my butt catches on and starts to get smaller.
emoticon Keep getting your shrink on!

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TONBEN 9/3/2013 12:50PM

    thanks for all the comments guys, like I said its not a negative just a little vent, cause well that's my sense of humor, lol. Great to know as per usual Im not alone and my SP friends have my back.

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COLETTEISGREAT 9/3/2013 7:14AM

    "Stop staring at my boobs and just be happy for me!!"

Sorry you got the extra comments! Sounds like you're making great progress, so keep it up!

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READY4CHANGE81 9/3/2013 12:50AM

    LOL @ what Ken said!! ha ha

I totally understand where you are coming from... emoticon

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KING_SLAYER 9/2/2013 8:34PM

    I'd be happy if people said my boobs looked smaller :) Other wise I am not a fan of shrinking boobs!!

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BEATLETOT 9/2/2013 8:20PM

    Woohoo! Your face is slimming down! LOVE THAT!!!

As for your boobs, well, I dunno, I wish mine would go down to the size I was comfortable with...so if I lost weight there, I don't reckon it'd be a tragedy...

Sorry people annoy you, though. At least they notice you're losing weight!


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SPARKLISE 9/2/2013 8:08PM

    emoticon great point ! I agree 100%!
Nobody wants to lose THERE! emoticon

Keep up the great work! emoticon emoticon

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MJREIMERS 9/2/2013 6:27PM

    I hear ya! I've heard that "you've lost your butt" comment, too. At my age everything is racing south, anyway, but it always seems we loose it in the places we don't want to first.

Be patient, the rest will trim down. I've maintained a 40 lbs weight loss for over 2 years now and I'm quite happy with my body. A good push up bra and a pair of jeans with button pockets on the back does wonders!!!

Hang in there and just know that you are already beautiful! So this journey is only an improvement on the person you already are!

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LIZSPRINGSTEEN 9/2/2013 5:14PM

    You're doing great! And I feel the same way! WE CAN DO THIS!!!

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TRENTDREAMER 9/2/2013 5:09PM

    Yeah, there's a lot of "nod and smile" when one loses weight. It can be really frustrating.

Congrats on your progress so far!

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