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For An Awful Person

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

So, I mentioned there is this one person that I hate. I've tried not to hate her, but every time I get close, she goes and does something rude and immature and cruel to people I love.

It's sad when someone can't act like a civilized grown up woman.

Still, I've been working on this meditation business and I realize that we're all made of the same stuff. So, I've got to find a way to channel this hatred and, if at all possible, transform it to positive energy and feelings.

So, I've established the following creative outlet for all these negative feelings I have for this person:


Bwahahahaha! Stupid.

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  • GEORGE815
    Always liked that guy. What a fun video!
    1643 days ago
    LOVE the video! Sorry you have to deal with this person. Sounds like you are trying to find a way to deal with them in a positive way though! Good luck!
    1645 days ago
    I firmly believe that people come into our lives for a reason! Sometimes those reasons are negative, painful, stir emotions that we are not comfortable with and also make us look at ourselves reacting to them. This person has no power over you. They do not define you and they do not deserve your time and attention beyond what is the absolute minimum that is required of you. I think your meditation recently has really got you focused on you, and what you feel really matters in your life. You are rockin' it girl! This person is just a speck in a whole new world you are exploring. peace my friend!
    1646 days ago
  • KIPPER15
    People like that are hard not to hate. Positive outlooks and behavior helps me.
    1646 days ago
  • JUNEAU2010
    Alas, there are people in our lives who don't bring anything good to the table. My list of those people is, thankfully, microscopically short. There is a former coworker who absolutely sets off my internal warning system. I have stopped going to my Toastmaster club because his presence is so toxic to my well-being!
    1646 days ago
    I use to work with couple of people like that, many years ago, but I eventually won, and outlasted them all !!

    Hang in there, not let that negative person get you down ~~ you know you are better than that. You do need to distance yourself from all that negativity !!

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    1646 days ago
    Hi Leah; emoticon emoticon

    So sorry you have this difficult person in your life to deal with, I find in my own life when people like this have to be in my life for whatever the reason, the more I try to push them away, the more of them I seem to get. So I've found I learn the most from these difficult people by just enduring & trying to get through the situation.

    Now when I clicked on the link, I saw a Rick Astley video, I watched the entire video, he was one of my daughters favorite singers growing up, so thank you my dear friend for giving me a few moments of happy cherished memories with my daughter that I still miss each & every day. I remember her dancing & singing into her hair brush fun things, ahhh thank you.

    Many Blessings Always Debby emoticon emoticon
    1646 days ago
    Sorry about the awful person....but LOL that was a great....well, without spoiling it for anyone else who may have scrolled down to the comments prior to clicking the link, I'll just say it was a great video. :)
    1646 days ago
  • LINDAK25
    Gee, you could be talking about my sister-in-law. She is an extremely unhappy and lonely person. She's very competitive and doesn't work well with others, as well as, thoughtless and lacking compassion. I try not to rise to the occasion when she works at tormenting me (and others). I do best when I have no contact with her! Sorry you have someone in your life like this.

    I did have a mean girl in high school who loved to poke at me. I ignored her for the most part until finally one day I asked her why I was so important to her. She never bothered me again.
    1646 days ago
  • CHERRY666
    LOL! Oh, god, I needed that! Thank you so much for sharing -- the video and your thoughts as well, because I can so relate.
    1646 days ago
    I used to work with that person. She was SO hateful and for some reason jealous of me... It was awful, and I learned to hate her back, for sure. But when I left that company, it was such a relief to not see her and not be subject to her awful remarks and nastiness. She verbally attacked me once in a meeting - screaming at me for no good reason, and was "punished" by getting a new assignment... Oh, I am sorry I even thought of her.. Let me go watch the video again!! LOL
    1646 days ago
    I don't hate any right now luckily in my life. Get annoyed by a few yes but hate no. But I do have a lot of anxiety about different things. I'm trying to channel that with exercise. Maybe you could do the same. Hating someone takes energy and creates a unhealthy energy similar I would think to anxiety. Just a thought. Good luck!
    1646 days ago
    Love the video. Needed that this morning. Thanks! emoticon
    1646 days ago
    Id try to avoid her ! Ive learned to surround my people with positive! I know you probably cant get away from this mean girl! I have this one lady at the food pantry where i volunteer and she gets to me always negative and all she does is complain and gets in her digs! Grr-r ! i just tolerate and let it go in one ear and out the other! Her meanness will only hurt herself! I will not let it get to me! Mean People STINK.. Blessings to you and good luck, Bonnie emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1646 days ago
    Hating is a real waste of energy and hurts you more than the one you are hating..When you hate someone you GIVE them power over you.
    1646 days ago
    I have hate issues also. My awful person was (still is) a preacher. I believed in my young and naïve years he was evil. A false teacher. His career over the past 30 years has proved me right. I pray about it. I pray for him, but I still despise him after all this time. Gag reflex. At least he's not a part of my life anymore.
    1646 days ago
  • PHOENIX1949
    Had someone close like that in my life. The phrase 'Hurting people hurt people" struck a chord with me and changed my responses to their behavior as I realized they were trying to drive others away because of their fear of rejection. Reject before being rejected -- what a miserable way to live. Still not easy to be around but tension and anger melted into a form of pity along with more patience.

    1646 days ago
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