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Hubby: Babe We need to talk. Are you serious? Vent!

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Hubby: Baby there is something I need to talk to you about.
Are you sick and tired of people telling you, what you can and cannot do? I am so sick and tired of hearing. You canít do this, and you cannot do that.

Hubby: Someone was talking about you again. They said you canít lose anymore weight or you shouldnít lose anymore. I say do whatís going to make you healthy and happy.

Well, why canít I do?
Give me 1 reason I should quit.
No, give me your reason why I should quit.
I know you have several reasons so give me your number 1 reason.

Hubby: It wasnít me!

Why should I
You know why I should so tell me.

Hubby: It wasnít me!
Oh, does the cat have your tongue.

Talk to the hand, you have nothing to say.

Hubby: Baby! This is what I heard. I think she has reached her goal.

This is coming from someone who has not lost 1 of my pounds, but she is worried about me losing another pound, telling my husband I should face the facts and get on with the rest of my life.
I was so pissed at this girl; I canít address her as a woman; because all her reasons were explained to my husband behind my freaking back during porker night.

Now, my husband brought this up because he thought I should know.
His words Ėbabe your aunt and I had to defend your weight loss one more time, and one of the players said that you need to face the facts and get on with life you canít lose anymore. I was just wondering why they talk about your weight loss all the damn time.

Who the hell is she to say what I can and cannot do? Right now this isnít about losing it at all; this is now about getting healthy, and if she would get involved in her own health affair she wouldnít have the time to think about my health love affair.
It wouldnít even be the topic on her lips.

Why are people wondering about me and my weight?
Hubby: Because youíre losing it.
Why are people always wondering when Iím going to stop?
Hubby: I guess they care; because I care and I know you can reach your goal weight.
Why are people so into my business?
Hubby: Because you know you're able and you wonít quit, and you are winning your battle.
Okay as long as we understand that I am winning, then whatever one has to say about me shouldnít matter at all.
They need to get right and leave me alone.
This is my time.
Iím not on theirs or on their dime.
This is my time.
Why should I quit!

Hubby: Baby you shouldnít quit.

Okay, just as long as you understand.
I will not sit back, chill out and get fat; because they choose to be.

Hubby: Maybe they don't choose to be.
Me! Oh you on their side.

Hubby: No, I'm just saying. They don't choose to be.
Okay! Just tell them to stop talking about me.
Remember! Happy wife, Happy life!


Member Comments About This Blog Post:
MSBATMAN 8/23/2013 3:42PM

    Lynn sounds to me like these people are so jealous of you and your weight loss. I hate when people try and tell me you don't need to lose weight you look great. They are just jealous and try to bring you down to their level. You listen to Lynn. You know what is best for yourself and how you want to look and feel. Don't give a damn about what others are saying. Continue your hard work.

Stay with positive people. Negative people will just try and break you down.

I am with you 100% girl. Keep up the good work :)

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    I'm so frustrated to hear of such people in your life!! To talk behind your back, to your husband... this person has no shame!

Clearly this person also has limited selft-worth, and the best way for them to be okay with this is to criticize others (ie, you) who are trying to improve themselves.

Keep on, keeping on, and surround yourself with SUPPORTIVE people!!


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VW_STEPH 8/21/2013 2:08AM

    Hahaha brilliant entry.
Especially the cat pic - oh my gosh I laughed for so long.

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CRYSTLE4HIMTX12 8/18/2013 5:13PM


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DEBBIE_C 8/18/2013 5:09PM

    emoticon Do you... Awesome as you are!

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GETNFITAFTER60 8/18/2013 1:34PM

    You and your hubby have such great conversations. You can tell he loves you very much.

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CINDYW1102 8/18/2013 9:19AM

    You just keep right on going in the direction you are going and ignore those people who are trying to derail you! emoticon

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SWEETZMIX 8/18/2013 6:56AM

    People always have an opinion. Sometimes if they would spend more time minding their own business, then they would realize they don't have time to be all up in someone else's business. Ignore them b/c you know what you want and that's that. Just add them to your list of haters!

You know what they say, opinions are like a**holes...they are full of sh*t! I also think you look great by the way!

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DJ4HEALTH 8/18/2013 2:31AM

    You are sooo right and keep going and do what you want to do not what they want you to do. Guess they are jealous of your weight loss!!

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