Friday, August 16, 2013
I'm really disappointed my sons birthday party is this weekend it's not going to be anything elaborate but we have a pool and he invited some kids and they said they'd come (5 in total).
Well yesterday he called one girl to make sure she was coming and she said oh sorry going out that day, she was the first one to say yes and he went to her party in June. I'm sorry but when someone gives their word they should stand behind it after all what do you have if you don't have that???????? Now the others are thinking about it and said they'll get back to them, now he just asked them about a week and a half ago it's not like this was months ago that he spoke with all of them and they said yes just about 2 weeks ago.
I WAS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO AFRAID OF THIS HAPPENING, because it seems like he just can't find that one true friend and he was soooooooooo excited about everyone saying yes and I said to him don't get to excited now I don't want you to be disappointed if they don't come and now it looks like MAYBE 1 might but even he's not a definite yes now as he was almost 2 weeks ago.
I'm not sure if hearing that last night stressed me out to the point where I was so sick with my fibro but WOW I look like crap and feel like it still but last night was a nightmare, I just hate seeing my son made a fool of as he has gone through so much in his young life with bullying, him having lyme , him dealing with me having lyme/fibro, us not having a lot, I just want him to be happy and have at least one friend at his party. It's going to be only a small one cause we don't have a lot of family and some can't come......
I try to teach my son about your word being everything , that when you make a promise you keep it, I saw how disappointed he was last night , it felt like someone knifed me in my heart seeing that.
I don't think other parents are teaching their kids good manners and the importance of giving their word and it just p#$$es me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!