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heartbroken - an amazing friend is gone.


Thursday, August 15, 2013

After a few weeks in intensive care, my dear friend has passed away from this earth. He taught me so much and we shared so many amazing and fun experiences. He was a truly wonderful friend, and one whom I had fully expected to grow old with. Really, there are no words to express what an immense loss I feel, how sad this time is for me, how shocked I am to know that he won't be ringing me up tonight or tomorrow or next week, and I won't be able to ring him either. Alas, this is to be expected - I am in the midst of the grieving process and feel alternately SO sad, then cheated, and yet happy in a way because I believe where he is is better than where we are - he has gone home.


If you are reading this, I respectfully ask for your prayers. For his family, for all of us who are left behind.

Yesterday we attended a beautiful wake and noon-time Mass in his honor, followed later in the day by a sunset sail to put his ashes in his the ocean off of Waikiki. As we left the dock, a bag-piper played Danny Boy and then Aloha 'Oe. The weather was gorgeous, and just before we put 'him' in the sea, we were blessed by a light rainfall and a DOUBLE rainbow. emoticon We scattered flowers in the water , cried some tears and laughed at good memories and then toasted him with a bottle of Irish whiskey. emoticon We stayed out to watch the sun set and canoe paddlers passed us by on their evening training runs, then headed back in. It was the most beautiful and perfect celebration of life I have ever witnessed or been a part of.

Sometimes in life something happens that feels like it alters who we are - this is one of those occasions for me. In the loss of my lifelong friend, it feels I have lost a part of myself. Gone too soon.

So, here is what may sound like a trite reminder, but please take it to heart. Reach out to those you love whom you assume will be there in the days, weeks, months and years to come. Give them a call. Send them an email. MAKE the time to be together. Life is short and people can leave when you least expect it. emoticon

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WHERE2BEGIN 8/30/2013 6:31PM

    I'm so sorry to hear of your lose. Sending prayers for his family, you and others who cared for him. May God be with you all and may memories of him in your life bring you peace. God bless. T.

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KIMYNAN 8/18/2013 6:37PM

    Sorry for your loss. My prayers go out to everyone he knew. May the memories help you at this time.
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HWNHMMBRD 8/18/2013 4:50PM

    So sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in others who share your love of your friend as you grieve and heal together. emoticon
A double rainbow and rain, what a true Hawaiian Blessing.

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MOEMOORE 8/18/2013 10:46AM

    I'm so sorry to hear of your lose - having been there several times in the last couple of years, I know the range of emotions all too well.

Thoughts and prayers to you, and all the others that he touched.

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LIVELYGIRL2 8/17/2013 12:19AM

  I'm so sorry about your beloved friend. God strengthen you and take care of you and the loved ones. emoticon

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AEGISHOT 8/15/2013 5:36PM

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BAMAJAM 8/15/2013 1:54PM

  I extend my sincere sympathy to you.-- May the wonderful memories that you shared with your friend-- give you comfort at this difficult time. God bless you.

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GINA197538 8/15/2013 4:06AM

    So sorry for your loss!

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