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Happiness Experiment - Day 18 (of 21)

Thursday, August 08, 2013


1. I am thankful for an AMAZING two-hour nap today! It was just lovely! I wasn't necessarily tired, but I knew I needed to catch up on some I stopped working, left the apartment a mess for a bit longer and forced myself to bed. It was the best choice I've made in a long time.

2. I'm thankful for an impromptu lunch with one of my girlfriends. Literally decided within 5 minutes to get in my car and go meet her at the restaurant. It was fun. I don't usually do spontaneous things like that.

3. I am thankful for NO HOMEWORK on the first week of school! Haha.


Today, I put in about an hour and a half of work and was able to get very caught up on a lot of my e-mails. In just 1.5 hours! This makes me feel great...knowing that I will not be going back into the office next week to an avalanche of e-mails and feeling overwhelmed and stressed. As it stands now, everything is manageable and it doesn't seem I've missed too much. I love when that happens on vacations!


If strenuous cleaning is an exercise, I've done it for the past 3 hours or so. I am sweating like a pig, so perhaps I've burned some calories. Haha.

I was doing some research last night on classes at the YMCA (looking to re-enroll my daughter in martial arts) and I noticed that Tai Chi for Beginners and Gentle Yoga are FREE for YMCA members! Also, they work with my schedule - even on Kid Weeks because they are during lunch hours! So, that will fill my time on Tuesday, Thursday and Friday. Now I just have to add some cardio to Mondays and Wednesdays and Saturdays. And work some weights in on Tues/Thurs and I will be golden!


Day 4 of the Oprah Winfrey/Deepak Chopra 21-Day Meditation Challenge.


Today's centering thought:

As I love and honor myself, my relationships blossom.

I was especially touched by the intro to today's meditation by Deepak Chopra:

"Many of us were brought up with the belief that it is better to give than to receive. That it is important to take care of other people's needs before our own. If you have taken that belief to heart, you may find yourself giving until you are physically exhausted, financially depleted or emotionally drained with little left to give. In reality, truly loving relationships depend upon your ability to nurture yourself, to love yourself and to practice self care. You can only give what you have and your relationships will always mirror how you feel about yourself."

There was an assignment to think about what activities and practices make me feel alive and balanced, then to create a seven-day self-care plan. Here is my plan:

Today - Nap & Clean Apartment emoticon
Friday - Go for a walk
Saturday - Hiking with the kids
Sunday - Read a book
Monday - Swim at YMCA
Tuesday - Walk the Clear Creek Trail
Wednesday - Spend time with the man I love

I was successful with my goal for today and, shockingly, I have had a wonderful night with my kids and have accomplished more today than I ever thought possible in one evening. I took a two hour nap and worked for 2 hours today and STILL was able to go to the grocery store (twice), pick up the kids from school, clean the entire apartment, finish two loads of laundry, make dinner for the kids, do the dishes, give all the kids baths/showers AND write this blog...all before the kids' bedtimes! That is AMAZING!!!!

Perhaps it's true...if we take a little time to care for ourselves, it is easier to care for others.




Member Comments About This Blog Post:
JUNEAU2010 8/9/2013 8:22PM

    emoticon that you get the free classes at the Y!

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CRISM82 8/9/2013 12:49PM

    Cool. It's sometimes hard for us to think of ourselves as equally important as other people. It's good to be reminded of that. Thanks.

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PATTISTAMPS 8/9/2013 11:05AM

    Now that is a great plan! I am thinking hard about that nurture myself stuff. Think I need a little, and going to get it today!! A lovely float in the pool, I hope! As long as the afternoon storms hold off, I am going to do it!

I will miss these blogs when your 21 days is over. I have SO enjoyed them. Really make me stop and think,, and notice all that I have to be grateful for. Thank you, Leah!

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LITTLEST-CORGI 8/9/2013 8:12AM

    Fantastic! I love your blogs! emoticon

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JACKSGRAN 8/9/2013 7:23AM

    It's so good to be thankful, even for the smallest things.

Have a great spark day. emoticon

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WISLNDR 8/9/2013 5:33AM

    emoticon for taking the time to post these great blogs!
emoticon for sharing what you've learned!
emoticon for reminding that I have a load of laundry waiting to go in the dryer!! emoticon

Have a great Friday!!

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GOING-STRONG 8/8/2013 11:38PM

    Thanks for sharing today's meditation by Deepak Chopra. I'm definitely passing that thought on to other spark friends!


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REGILIEH 8/8/2013 10:44PM

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KELLIEBEAN 8/8/2013 10:18PM

    We can all take a lesson from you. So many times I say 'there just aren't enough hours in the day' and look how much you accomplished. AND you took care of yourself to. Score!

Wonderful blog. Thank you!

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CAROLZ1967 8/8/2013 9:35PM

    i Love Your Blogs! They Give Me So Much To Think About Myself! What an Amazing & Productive Day You Had!

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MOM-MOM8 8/8/2013 8:38PM

    Sounds like an emoticon day! Taking care of yourself and the chores that needed to be done. emoticon

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