Friday, August 02, 2013
I decided that while I like the little I've read of the Flylady philosophy, I'm just not into moderation at the moment. I'm obsessively tackling my house. I'm delighted with the progress -- but there is a lot more to do. Can always fall back on the "I can do anything for 15 minutes" (Flylady quote) if I run out of steam, but I don't think that is happening.
When I first started losing weight my housekeeping improved as I had more energy and just felt better. Then as I got more into it, I preferred to spend my energy on more intense workouts and, honestly, I chose working out over cleaning house time and time again. I cooked a lot, but no cleaning I couldn't put off. So after almost 4 years of a "lick and a promise" it is time to whip this house in shape!
Today I went to the Y and did a good strength training workout and 45 minutes of intense elliptical. I watched Natalie's gymnastics performance and got to see her on the balance beam for the first time. Wow, does she have good balance! However, I'd spent 2 hours de-cluttering before I went. I kept Gwen for 4 hours and then got back to my tasks for another 2 hours before cooking supper.
I plan to just dabble in Flylady this month. For those that don't know, the FLY in flylady stands for Finally Loving Yourself. Isn't that neat? The habit this month is laundry, but I'm good at keeping up with laundry, so I plan to mostly de-clutter and, of course, clean the spots under the clutter! I know she stresses a shiny sink and I haven't read yet why, but it is usually the last thing I do in the kitchen so my kitchen is looking better. When I started cooking more, I didn't always keep up in the kitchen. I like emptying the dishwasher in the morning and loading it all day. Those clean counters make me smile!!!
One e-letter to Flylady stressed not saying bad things about your house and cleaning to yourself or anyone else. At the end of many of the e-mails it says something like you are not behind, just start where you are. I read that Flylady doesn't call it housecleaning, but blessing the house! I realize that I have had a very bad attitude about housework for the last 30 years and I am going to change that. I have really felt deprived. My dad did a lot of housework. My husband does virtually none and he isn't going to. And he is very, very messy and a terrible packrat. I have been full of resentment for years; felt that I have failed the women's movement. When I imagined myself grown up I truly don't know who I thought was going to do the housework, but it sure wasn't me. So I've kind of felt like Cinderella at the beginning of the story.
I have decided that I want an orderly and clean house for me -- even if I have to do it myself. So I plan to make this house the castle it should be for Slenderella!!