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mother may i...!!!! arhggg!!!!

Monday, July 22, 2013

and so it begins!!! I knew having my son move back in was going to be stressful, at best.
But now hes asking to use my car!!!!
He went out to work on his and sprayed it with water for some reason unknown, and now it wont start.
To work, wouldnt be so bad, as its only about 5 miles away.
and he doesnt have to be there til 11pm, but hes wanting to take it to one of his NA meetings.
And while I am all for him going to his meetings., it is over 25 miles one way, and back, then running here and there.
All I need is Honey getting mad at me over letting my son use my car.
It has been a point of contention in this house for a decade now!!!
And I am just thinking ahead, this is the only car we have that is even driveable to get groceries, for me to get to work, go walking, doing my errands, etc.
I am sick of it, right now an anger is building up inside me that I want to punch a punching bag and there are none available!!!
I am sick of it!!!!
If I say no, its well he missed his meeting, and if I say yes, its well, I have to listen to Honey go on and on about how hes a grown man, let him grow up, what does he do with all of his money, etc.
I am sick of being put in the middle and of having my home invaded and my automobile hijacked.
Stress!!!!
i REALLY NEED TO GO WALKING!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
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LADYFROMTHEWOOD 7/23/2013 9:38AM

    Sometimes 'helping' is enabling. He can ask for a ride from a buddy in group maybe. Or spend this morning working on his car. Hubby says he needs to take the distributor cap off, dry it off as much as possible then try it. Maybe even try carb cleaner or WD-40 on the the OUTSIDE of it to help. If that don't work, take the plug wire off of the coil and dry it off too. Hope this actually works.

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CAPECODBABE 7/22/2013 7:56PM

    I know just how you feel.

My son moved back WITH his 2 year old daughter
(I love having my granddaughter here) but emoticon

Breathe, Val

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GRANDMABABA 7/22/2013 6:19PM

    Our daughter and sil took great advantage of us for 12+ years, even taking over our large home rent free while we moved to a tiny condo with a big mortgage. Never did they offer to help with extra expenses, did little to maintain the place, etc. sil is a critical care neurologist and now they are planning a family vacation to Hawaii because they 'deserve' it. Hope you can nip this in the bud so you won't end up making yourself sick from stress.

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