Sunday, July 21, 2013
This is going to be a lengthy ranty blog....you've been warned!!! So one June 28th my sister moved into my house. For a year now now she has been in and out of the hospital, she will never admit it it is all due to her drinking. Well she became very ill and could hardly walk and became dehydrated and malnourished (drinking and not eating). In the hospital she was a fall risk and didn't listen and stay in bed as a result she fell twice and sustained a head injury. Se then checked herself out against medical advice. She then wound up here. The first night here I saw she had a gallon of vodka in the things she bought here, I hid it. I was called every name in the book. I explained as long as she was in my house there would be no drinking. I also told her there is no smoking in my house (I have C.O.P.D.) she said she understood. The next morning there is a cigarette butt put out on one of my coasters,when confronted she lied and said she didn't do it.....she is the only one who smokes!!!! So a week later my house smelled like smoke again told her about again. Next week I find another cigarette butt, I told her I was sick of it.Once again she said she didn't do it.I told her that even her smoking out on my porch effects my breathing because it comes through the windows plus she carries it in with her on her clothes, She told me it doesn't effect my health...I then told her that August 31st is her last day in my house.
I feel guilty because she is homeless and has no income but she is unwilling to help herself.
I am trying to get her welfare benefits but she claims that she calls but they never return her calls. I have a parade of occupational and physical therapists, nurse and social workers parading through my house because the hospital set them up. She only half ass does what they tell her to do This is going to be even a bigger problem now that my DD is back home for the rest of the summer. She suffers from depression and hates strangers in her space. To make this all worse my sister is acting like she entitled to run my household!!! She is wondering out on the front porch at 1 in the morning to smoke and then leaving the door unlocked when she comes in. She acts like I owe her something. This is a person who has stolen my identity twice a rung up $1,500 in cell phone bills in my name. Has told me she has M.S and had part of her kidney removed because of kidney cancer....medical people coming here say none of this is in her records. So does it make me a bad person if I stick to my guns and get out of my house on August 31st....even if welfare hasn't kicked in?