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When is enough enough part 2

Thursday, July 18, 2013

I really am going out of my mind right now. My suspicion was correct. I found the bedbugs and the holes in the mattress in my daughters room. I threw them away lol I just took the whole mattress out and threw them away. I told my boyfriend that when he sees his ex tomorrow to tell her thank you for allowing the kids to bring the bedbugs to our house. Before I started to see my bf I never had a problem with lice or bedbugs or anything and seeing their mom don't know how to take care of the places they live or inspect them(they live in a city that is wellknow for being infested with bedbugs). I just am disgusted right now and kinds clueless. Does anyone know how to take care of them without calling in a specialist? I have the spray and I sprayed the boards on the bed because its a bunkbed, and I sprayed near the wall and the corners and tomorrow I am going to spray again and wip everything down. But is there anything else I should do? I am going to go through my daughters toys and get all the hairy or furry ones out and I am throwing a lot of her purses or bags away just in case. But I was wondering she has a toy chest that has cloth on it should I get rid of that to? Its all stained anyways but I a worried they may bury themselves in it somewhere. I feel myself start to panic but I just take deep breaths and then I'm good. But still I am so worried about my girls. He does not understand that if there is not a safe environment for the children there are consequences and I do not want to be in that position. I have always took care of my girls good and provided a safe home but now his kids keep bringing stuff and I think to myself is it really worth this? I love him but I don't think I love him enough. emoticon emoticon
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    I believe if you are asking the question then you know the answer . And to be honest if he is not as worried for the welfare and safety of your children Then the question shouldnt be if you love him enough but if he loves you enough emoticon
    1681 days ago
    Thank you maybe i will send you a message. It is probably my insecurities.
    1681 days ago
    I would do some research on bedbugs and maybe even call your local health department. They may offer advice, programs to help you take care of this, something more than I can tell you at least.
    If you don't think you love him enough, what is keeping you in this relationship? Are you with him because you don't want to be alone? I'm a psych major so just picking your brain here. If you want to talk, please feel free to private message me. I will be gone this weekend to a wedding, but I'm around most of the time other than that and my specialty is marriage and family counseling.
    1681 days ago
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