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    RONDADEBI   36,220
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thinking about bowing out next round of blc

Wednesday, July 17, 2013


down another couple pounds...

as much I hate to say it, I know I said I was going to do next round, but, I'm having second thoughts...I'm too the point I've enjoyed this round and learn to love exercising, and now I'm ready to do other things, that I don't find I have the time for internet hardly any more, if it doesn't come on over my FB on cell I just don't get around my computer hardly any more...I'm finding that getting off my ass and moving is more motivation for me then sitting here typing and trying to motivate...

I don't know I need to pray about it...truth is I have 6 more weeks, of this round, and need to see people doing what they said they would do for themselves...I can't do it for them...or chances are, I'm not doing my job well enough for them...

God bless you
Ronda
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VICKYMARIEC 7/18/2013 4:15PM

    OMG how did i miss this! Are you freakin kidding me woman? You are a beast...an amazing, hard working, kicking ass along the way, fitness beast. ..and we love ya for it. You cannot control anyone else let alone your team. All yo ucan do is be there to support them, encourage them and provide guidance. If someone isn't ready to do something, they just won't do it..regardless of the leadership. They don't reflect on you honey. You are amazing...BUT if you really want a break from BLC then take it...but you will be so missed...love ya girly...

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EVER-HOPEFUL 7/18/2013 4:01PM

    ronda shall i knock your head on spomething love,lol.just joking,well semi.if you feel not being in the next round is for you then go by it but if you feel you shouldnīt be in the next round because of other people,how they are doing or not doing or seeing it as a relection on you if the others donīt do well well you are wrong there.we are all differant people and differant levels,motivation etc on our healthy lifestyle journey.we are also differant personalities and have differant things going on in our life.i know i havenīt done so well in this round so far and also feel at times that i am letting the team now.i know there are also times when i let what is going on in my life get in the way of my healthy lifestyle journey.but that is down to me not you or anyone else on our team.we are there to help encourage and even inspire one another but we canīt do it for them.we also canīt expect them to be as deadicated as you maybe at the moment.remember we havenīt all got family support and at times our willpower is week.all we can do is do our best for ourselves as we see it and hope by doing that our fellow vikings will do the same.i admire you greatly and find you an inspiration but that is for me to find.when i or someone else doesnīt find it it doesnīt mean any reflection on you by any short means.so look closely at why you want to not do next challenge.the real reason .if it is for you and you alone then go for it but if it is because you feel you might have let others down in any way or form know you are wrong there.after all we are all only human and we all have to answer for our own doings as after all we are the ones living our life not you.donīt know weather this has come out as i intended,hope so. emoticon

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FIFIFRIZZLE 7/18/2013 3:19PM

    You are doing awesomely! We are all in Spark People for ourselves, remember Sparkguy says, put on your own oxygen mask first.
Do what you need to do, others will do what they need to do and that isn't your responsibility.
Yay for moving not typing, and on that note, I'm off to do the same.
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TREE57 7/17/2013 11:14PM

    WHOA THERE NELLIE! What your team is doing is not a reflection on you. ARE YOU KIDDING ME....you have rocked this challenge...NUMERO UNO FOR SIX WEEKS! I am so impressed with your determination and perserverance...don't let the other 9 bring you down. WOMR LOVE YOU...PINK VIKINGS LOVE YOU....the others are just at another spot in their own lives....no reflection on you, trust me....

WE LOVE YOU RONDA! emoticon

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CHOCOHOLIC2276 7/17/2013 10:35PM

    You have to do what's right for you. Whatever you think will keep you motivated.

I don't think people's doing or not doing what they said they would for themselves is a reflection on you. I've been on BlC for many many rounds and Some rounds are very productive others have helped me not throw in the towel. Everyone is in different stages of their lives and journeys. You can root for them, be an example but everyone has to take the tools we learn here and figure out what works for them.

You still have time to decide and I'm sure your team would miss you but like you said, pray on it. emoticon emoticon

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