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Wednesday, July 17, 2013

WOW I've been analized and told I need help? lol ok.

What I blogged about was just one tiny aspect of why I want to lose weight. I have blogged for nearly 3 years about various things. About wanting to be healthy for myself and my family, a better wife, to be more spontaneous and enjoy LIFE. To be a better grandmother to my new grandbaby than I perhaps was to my children because I could not be as active since I was bigger.

I have also blogged about worries to my health and about how I do not want to go the same route as my mom and dad and be a diabetic or have heart failure.

SO when I took just a MOMENT in time in my journey and wrote what I was feeling at the time, NOW I NEED HELP and you don't feel IM in it for the right reason?

Oh IM in this for the right reasons. ALL of them. But let's face it I just said in this one blog what some people, I am sure just more than me, FEEL at one time or another during this "journey".

But thanks for taking my one moment of indulgence and tying it all up into a pretty package for me.
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    I'd be lying if I didn't say that one of my motivations is the women around here that choose to openly flirt with my husband because they think he can do better. Eh, I tell him all the time if he sees one that suits him, have at it but they won't put up with him for long emoticon

    Being honest and facing what struggles you have-good, bad, and ugly, is really important in this journey. Just take what others say with a grain of salt and remember that we only get a picture of what you project online, not the true you. I sometimes get annoyed when people say I need to do something or other and then just try to remember that they are looking at a snap shot in a moment of time. Especially if it is someone who doesn't normally comment on your blog or page.

    Keep pushing forward!

    1650 days ago
    Sorry others felt the need to judge you so harshly for being honest about your feelings and one of the reasons you want to lose weight. She obviously has a whole host of her own issues to treat you the way she does, I don't blame you for feeling as you do. We all have multiple reasons for losing weight, some noble, some perhaps not so noble, but they are OUR reasons, and no one else has a right to criticize us for them. Just keep taking care of yourself and know that you're worth the effort; if at some point you can let go of the anger, do it for yourself because it frees you.

    1651 days ago
  • .DUSTY.
    Oops! I didn't mean to offend. I did say part of me understood:)

    I rarely read blogs but the title of yours caught my eye. The title was after all, "Keeping it real". And that was my real answer:) Anger only hurts us.

    Most unfortunately don't have the time to read through past blog posts so we have to go by what is currently written.

    1651 days ago

    Comment edited on: 7/17/2013 10:35:03 AM
  • ONUTHIN125
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    1651 days ago
    Honey, you lost the weight. If you were not in this for the right reasons, you would not have been as successful.
    But letting go of the anger towards that awful woman in your life will absolutely help and free you. It just sapps energy.
    I have had to forgive and let go of some hair raising things in my life. It hurts, I know. But it feels fabulous afterwards.
    Bless you!
    1651 days ago
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