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Tough couple of days will be getting worse before it gets better

Sunday, July 14, 2013

Tuesday is not going to be a happy day, no matter what. I will bury my beloved aunt in the morning, and in the evening I will be comforting the parents of a friend who passed away yesterday. He was a young guy, with a hard life. He did not handle being diabetic well, and it eventually killed him. That's the reality.

When I was diagnosed he gave me a talking to. He wanted to know everything, and he supported me so that I would take it seriously. He didn't have to, because I take everything seriously, but he did it anyway.

I am all set with losing people around me just now, thanks. Please give me time to adjust to life without these two people, universe. I don't pretend to understand why, I just need to find a way to cope with it, and be where I am needed when I am needed.

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GEORGE815 7/18/2013 6:05PM

    Sorry for your loss.

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AMYTRIPP 7/16/2013 9:03AM

    I'm so sorry for your losses. emoticon

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GEORGE815 7/15/2013 7:44PM

    Sorry for all your losses. I agree Diabetes is a lifetime battle. Nice for your friend to help out with you. Terrible he couldn't battle it any longer. Don't know what is in store for me, but I hope I can keep going strong.

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LEANJEAN6 7/15/2013 8:34AM

    Oh it's hard to lose friends!----I feel for you!----And sometimes it's difficult to keep families from upsetting one!-------I try to keep it all in perspective----but some days are harder than others----Hugs to yu to be strong!-Lynda

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DAWNDMOORE40 7/15/2013 7:25AM

    emoticon We can't really understand how your feeling because everyone grieves in a different way, but just know we are here for you if you need someone to just listen! I had a Sister pass away at a young age, and it's never easy to understand God's plan, but he has a plan for all of us, and he can give you comfort to get through this one day at a time. My prayers with you and your family! emoticon

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    Loss is hard, and the only way to deal with it is to go through it, which isn't easy. Just know that "this too shall pass" and one day you'll find yourself feeling better. It's good to be there for people when they need you. People like you make difficult times easier for others. Don't forget, though, to take care of yourself too.

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DSBRIDE 7/14/2013 10:21PM

    Sending hugs and prayers!

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TIGER_LILY_613 7/14/2013 10:11PM

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COCK-ROBIN 7/14/2013 9:21PM

    emoticon You have my prayers, and a shoulder to cry on.

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1CRAZYDOG 7/14/2013 9:08PM

    Sending you peaceful thoughts, my dear. HUGS

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MARYBETH4884 7/14/2013 8:55PM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you! I buried my Aunt yesterday. We all understand that each of us has times like these in our lives. emoticon

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CAROL494 7/14/2013 8:47PM

  Take care!

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