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    LANCE992   44,264
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OK...things just got real too dang fast....

Wednesday, July 10, 2013

My brother and sister in law just left my home. They took mom to the doctor and they said that the doctor said that mom's esphoagus problem is the second worst he had ever seen.

He told them that the first person DIED from the problem mom is facing right now.

They also took my only mode of transport other than my bicycle and also my's car.

They told me to go and pay the mortgage and to also pay the water bill and that they..

would like us out there by the first part of next month.

What am I going to do now?. Other than help clean that is.

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
NELLJONES 7/11/2013 7:27AM

    Is your name on the mortgage or title? If not, why pay it? FEELING responsible doesn't mean you are. Someone told me many years ago to coldly and carefully figure out who actually owns a problem. If it isn't yours, give it back to the owner. Other people can cast blame, but if it really isn't yours, let it bounce off. Words are cheap, unless they are on a document. You aren't responsible for someone else's living arrangements, no matter how vociferously they may insist that you are.

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CINDYWAGNER1 7/10/2013 11:03PM

    emoticon that you are going thru what you are going thru. Avoid him and do what you have to do .

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COCK-ROBIN 7/10/2013 9:08PM

    I agree. Avoid your brother at all costs!

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ALIHIKES 7/10/2013 7:49PM

    Lance see if you can find another living situation, maybe with roommates, maybe in some type of housing assistance. I think it is a mistake for you to end up so dependent on your brother's whims! There is low income housing assistance in every state. There may also be assistance for people with disabilities. Check with your local housing authority or social services agency. emoticon

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CAROLJEAN64 7/10/2013 3:52PM

    Deep breathing is the only help I can offer. Hope things improve all around rapidly.

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KNYAGENYA 7/10/2013 3:11PM

    I hope things improve. emoticon

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KARENLEIGH32 7/10/2013 1:58PM

    I have only started reading your blog the last couple of days and I don't understand what is happening here, BUT I do sincerely hope things will be better for you soon.

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