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when is enough enough?

Tuesday, July 09, 2013

This is a venting blog. Ok I have been with my bf for 5 years. He has three kids and I have two girls. Well his kids have brought lice to our house like 4 or 5 different times and of recently I think we now have bedbugs because of them. Their mother is lazy and don't care and I am the one who cleans all this crap up after they come. I am reallyh at the end of my line. I am about to call it quits with my bf because of this. I am so sick of my kids being exposed to all this and on top of it my boyfriends son has tried to commit suicde twice and cuts himself and their aware of what he does. I feel guilty though because I love my boyfriend but I just can't deal with it anymore. On top of it we all live with my mother band between all the stresses. Its no wonder I can't lose weight. I just don't know. Does anyone have any advice?
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    As the parent of two cutters, I can tell you that the son needs help. Cutting is serious business and an addiction just like drugs. That will not get better till there is serious therapy. As far as the lice goes yea that is not good either it can cause serious health issues for everyone. I cant tell you what to do but to analzye out the situation and vent it out. And ask the tough questions what is he doing for you because you seem to be doing a lot for him. All I can say sweetie is emoticon and if you need an ear to vent to give me yell i will listen and help if i can. emoticon emoticon
    1589 days ago
    Oh honey, I don't envy you. I'm sorry that you have found yourself in this situation. You have to make some decisions about what is bet for you, your children, and your mother as well from the sounds of it. Does he live with you and your children at your mothers?
    I think the best thing if that is the case is for him to get his own place where you can visit him if you choose to keep seeing him. He has to handle the situation with his ex, you getting involved will likely only make matters worse. I hope you can find a happy resolution to all of this.
    1592 days ago
    Wow, you do have your hands full. Personally, I think your BF should be handling the situation with his children's mother. If their mom isn't taking proper care of them, she shouldn't have any custodial rights. However, if BF doesn't take the matter in his hands, he SHOULD, at the very least, help with the mess in your home. Perhaps this will take some of the burden of your shoulders. Otherwise, I would ask myself 'Did I really sign up for this?' Best wishes to you.
    1593 days ago
    You certainly do have a dilemma!

    What do you think you should do?
    What about your children?
    When will you think you have had enough?

    Only you can answer these questions.
    1593 days ago
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