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Slowly Recovering But Still Have a Long Way to Go

Sunday, July 07, 2013

It's been four weeks since my surgery and I'm still recovering. I've had several operations in my lifetime, but this one is by far the hardest and longest recovery time of any I've had. It is definitely the most challenging and humbling situation I've dealt with after any surgery I've had.

I'm frustrated by the swelling in my abdomen (which is very normal) because I can't wear any of the clothes that I wore the day before my surgery, so my wardrobe is very limited. If I walk around too much the swelling gets worse and the pain increases, but I try to keep doing it anyway although the results are not what you normally expect after exercising.

I don't get the good endorphins that you normally get, I just get more pain and swelling, so that is frustrating. I know it's not fat or weight because I have lost a few pounds after this surgery although I put on a few that I lost in the beginning because I went without eating for several days. I was down to 116 pounds at one point, but now I'm at 119, which is less than what I was before the surgery.

The crazy thing though was all the water weight I had (from all the iv fluids I had pumped in me) and I blew up to 131 pounds from that. In other words, I gained 10 pounds of water weight after the surgery. My feet were so swollen as was my entire body. Once the catheter was out and I was able to go on my own and the iv taken out, my weight dropped to 116 a few days after I was home.

I know it's just swelling and not weight in my abdomen , but from what I have read online, it takes months for it to disappear so I suppose I will have a very limited wardrobe for quite awhile. Luckily I had my "fat" clothes in storage, which actually were clothes that were a size or two larger than my size I was wearing before this surgery. I hate It though because they are not flattering at all because they are too big every where except my swollen abdomen area.

I'm able to do a little more than I was after my surgery, so I see some progress, but the amount of time it takes to recover from this is not helping my patience. I realize I have to take care of myself right now and take it easy without taking it too easy, but the fine line where that's at is hard to figure out sometimes.

I went grocery shopping at two stores yesterday so that I could finally use my coupons again before they expired (two stores that double coupons). I had my husband with me so he could push the buggy and lift heavy items into it as well as put the heavy bags in and out of the car. I prepared before we left so that I wouldn't be standing up any more than necessary and I wouldn't be frustrated by not being able to find the coupons I was looking for.

Let's just say it was an eye-opening experience for us both. My husband now sees how much effort and work goes into shopping for deals with coupons, and I realized how exhausting and painful it is to walk up and down grocery isles after a major surgery, LOL.

He was great though and didn't complain too much, but instead of me telling him about my great deals, he actually got to see them in action! :-) Of course since I had him with me I didn't get a fantastic amount of money off since h put extra things in the buggy, but I managed to save $30 some dollars off (after coupons) on a $60 worth of groceries, which is great considering my condition and the limitations I'm under.

I'm going to take it easy today and not walk around too much after my exhausting excursion yesterday because by the time I got home I was almost in tears from how bad I felt (looked like I was 5 months pregnant by this point) including pain on the sides of my incision and the back spasms that wouldn't quit.

I've been taking a muscle relaxer at night to take care of the back spasms that I've had from almost the beginning of this journey and I know that's because I'm not able to use my abdominal muscles very much so my poor back is giving me a fit.

I think the lack of energy is another thing that is difficult for me because normally I am a get up and go type of person and I am not able to do anything near what I used to do before this surgery. I keep reading that recovery for the actual surgery is around 6-8 weeks and that the actual healing inside takes 6 months to 1 year, so I suppose I have to be patient.

Normal will be a long ways off, but I am trying to do a little bit of normal. We went to see the fireworks on 4th of July in a nearby town, but instead of taking chairs and walking to a good spot, we stayed in the car so I didn't have to walk around in the rain. There was no way I could walk fast or run and it rained so much that I didn't even feel safe walking slowly on the slippery streets.

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KISSFAN1 7/22/2013 8:56AM

    Thanks Suzy. I'm slowly getting better every week, but this surgery is one that requires lots of patience and time for a full recovery (6 months to a year). I'm doing more than I was the last time I posted a blog, so that's encouraging to me.

I still have limitations though and physically not where I want to be due to the internal area having a long way to go before it's healed.

It's hard to know what is too much activity vs. what is too little and the doctor's don't give you much details or instructions, even if you ask. I've had to find answers to most of my questions and fears online (thank goodness for the internet).

I appreciate you comments!

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SUZYMARC 7/20/2013 2:55PM

    emoticon stay positive and realize you can still do Sparking and little things which will add up. Let your body recover at its rate and I am happy to hear your hubby got a chance to see you in true action with your "coupon power" emoticon

I know you are frustrated just find something to help pour your energy into that won't cause so much pain, you'll get there and heal.

Hang in there. emoticon

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KISSFAN1 7/8/2013 2:02PM

    Anasis - Thanks girl; I appreciate it. It has been a very long journey to get to where I am even now, but at least I'm not back to where I was before the surgery.

It will take a while yet for me to feel up to my regular routine, so trying to be good although I'm going stir crazy! LOL

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KISSFAN1 7/8/2013 2:00PM

    Thank you Emptynester; I appreciate your words. I'm not very patient by nature (well, at least after this surgery and it's limitations anyway), LOL. It's hard for me to not do too much, but I know I need to take it easy and not have a relapse as you mentioned.

I'm so thankful that my kids and husband are willing to help, but will be so glad when I can finally get back to normal.

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ANAIS57 7/8/2013 10:53AM

    sending healing energy your way!!!! emoticon

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EMPTYNESTER60 7/7/2013 3:48PM

    emoticon I've been thinking about you & I'm so sorry that you aren't healing as quickly as you would like. Patience is sooo hard when you are a "get up & go" type person. It's good that you have your husband & kids to help you out & I'm glad you are letting them do it. Be sure to continue to take it easy & don't overdo. You sure don't want to undo the progress you have made.

Will keep sending prayers & happy thoughts your way. emoticon

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WILDKAT781 7/7/2013 2:40PM

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