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Hey, its going to be ok afterall :)

Saturday, July 06, 2013

Well, I know I may get judged for this, but our break only lasted 24 hours. We really, really like each other and feel that we're supposed to be together right now, continuing slowly as we've been. I can't explain it at all, it just feels so right for both of us. He's really, despite his issues, is one of the most emotionally intelligent men I have met in a long time. He's very open and honest with me and is really working hard on himself. I realize I am leaving myself wide open to criticism here but, its ok. In my heart, this feels right. And, he feels the same. We both took our dating profiles down, mutually, last night, and we are just going to concentrate on each other for now. And, we both said we realize we both have the option to bow out at anytime should it get to be too much.

I am happy and its definitely a symbiotic relationship. He knows where he stands, he gives, he talks openly and shares his feelings. He gives me butterflies lol. He also shared that while he was in California, he couldn't stop thinking about me and that is what told him he needed to work on this and wanted me in his life.

I haven't been tracking because sorting this out has taken a lot of my energy. Very worth it, but very consuming. Now that I know its a done deal and we're moving forward, I can back to focusing my energy on here.

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COFFEE_KISSES 7/7/2013 3:08PM

    Ok, Shel, I confess, I had s'mores on the 4th *shame on me* but, oh my, they were so good! :)~

I am totally back on track now, judge me! Go ahead! emoticon

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SHEL_V2 7/7/2013 2:58PM

    We SparkFriends may occasionally be really judgey about whatcha eat or if you're working out too much, but things that give you butterflies are your own business! All for happiness!

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AVONWITHJENN 7/7/2013 2:22PM

    Like everyone has said here already, only you know what is good for you. You know how you feel and that is that, When me and DH started dating, we split for about 24 hours too. We never broke up again and we are going on 15 years now. Be strong and grow together. I wish you much love and success.

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COFFEE_KISSES 7/7/2013 2:14PM

    Wow, I am overwhelmed by the kind words and support, thank you so much!

I am really happy with our decision ;)

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PJBONARRIGO 7/6/2013 10:09PM

    If it feels right, good for you both. Relationships take work, but they are worth it. Good luck :-)

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GEMINIGEM6 7/6/2013 9:34PM

    I'm glad you're happy. It's all about going w/ your gut feeling. I am going to email you more details of my thoughts on it. :)

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NEWKATHYNOW 7/6/2013 8:10PM

    Make that ditto for me as well. Only you know what feels right and when. Good luck!

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WOUBBIE 7/6/2013 7:45PM

    Betty (EWEFLUFFY) said everything I would have said, only better.

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KICK-SS 7/6/2013 5:11PM

    You need to do what feels right to you. I have a friend with a serious case of PTSD from being in the war, he can be the nicest guy, but there are times when he needs "his space" Fourth of July is a BAD time for him...

You will know what feels right for you, no one can tell you what you should do and if there are issues that aren't acceptable to you, you will find out and can move on, maybe you'll only remain just friends - one never knows where or how our life's journey will take us.

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