Stress Journal #2
Thursday, July 04, 2013
Okay so this week has been HELL!!!!
First off I didn't get my pay, either one of my direct deposits. Both were rejected by the bank and sent back to the fed's by the bank because some "guy" called with some weird name and told the bank to send back all my checks! WHAT?! I didn't get ANY notice and was not told about ANYTHING...To make it even better the bank did not require any paper work proving the checks needed to be sent back, they took this guy's "word"...Can we say STUPID?!
So needless to say I FREAKED when I found out that the bank account was totally locked and that my direct deposit checks had been sent back. Especially when we finally got ahold of the section of the bank that would answer any questions, which was of course after I had gone down to the local Tacoma office and made a big fuss about not getting my direct deposits...The phone line did not open until 9 AM and the local Tacoma office opened at 9 AM, we were there at 7:30 AM and waited just so we could get in quickly...The Rep. said I needed to contact my bank and find out if they sent back the direct deposit checks after rejecting them and to open a new bank account at a real bank...So we did open a new bank account at a real bank but by the time we had the account open, the local office was closed, so nothing more could be done...Then we contacted the bank through that "phone number" we had been given earlier...Found out disturbing news and tried calling the phone number they were provided by the "guy that worked with or for the Treasury Dept"...First time we called this guy got on and when he was just beginning to look stuff up after asking for our full social security numbers and address the phone call was disconnected...So I called back, got the same guy quickly and as he was "looking stuff up" the phone call got disconnected AGAIN...Seriously, that does not sound like a government official phone line even though it is the same number as listed online...Regardless I turned in a complaint and also information about possible fraud to the Treasury Dept...So we hope this gets solved quickly...
On top of all of that, I went into Rent-A-Center in Tacoma and told them that I needed some more time (would know more Friday, tomorrow) and the main person I have worked with for a while said, she is having issues just pick it up on Saturday...Then I had to ask them what time on Saturday that they would be coming...I am so upset with the treatment I am getting from them, I said if I didn't get any new information or couldn't come up with some sort of payment to get me by until I do get my money that I would call them immediately on Friday, and if I did get the situation turned around that I would call them on Friday and schedule the payment...Now I know that I had to return my computer that I just got from them, as well as my Mother did on her own account but my Aunt had to leave the state for a while and now it is being extended, we don't have enough for the payments, so instead of lying we were up front and this is the treatment that we get...Well even if I do get the money issue situated or if I do get cut a check tomorrow (Friday) from the local Tacoma office I am NOT going to keep the furniture set that they scheduled to pick up on Saturday...Screw jerks, I will never work with Rent-A-Center again, this is possible fraud give me a damn break, I even bought the extra insurance plan they offer for around $12 a month, in the information provided it stated that if there was a job loss, etc that there would be options available...So much for customer service and following what their contract/paper work says that is provided...BUYER BEWARE!!! That is all I can say, because I have now put over $500 into this damn BS from them and the least they could have done was WORK with me...Well they can kiss my white butt, it is big enough so they shouldn't miss it! I am so done with men not being nice to women and done with these companies that lie and are only good about customer service when you are buying or starting a new contract...
I am officially done with all of the BS in my life and I am not taking it anymore...So all of the drama out there in my life can pass me by because I am not playing nice anymore and I am ignoring as much of it as I can...
This is EXACTLY how I feel right now - Read below
Not Ready to Make Nice by the Dixie Chicks
"I’m not ready to make nice
I’m not ready to back down
I’m still mad as hell and
I don’t have time to go round and round and round
It’s too late to make it right
I probably wouldn’t if I could
‘Cause I’m mad as hell
Can’t bring myself to do what it is you think I should"
I love this song and going to play it every day...
Please don't think that I am a very angry person all the time because I'm not...I am very loving and nurturing but I have been hurt so much in my life and messed over so much in my life that I just can't take anymore...
I am going to listen to that song every day and push myself forward...Hope for a better day as each day comes and stop letting people hurt me, walk all over me and destroy whatever sanity I have left...It is time for ME to shine! :)