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Crazy Birthday Roller Coaster

Tuesday, July 02, 2013

I worked my insane month-end schedule, long days and weekends. On my birthday Sunday, I requested the day off. There were highs and lows... This is better than low and more low. ;)

But it was a little bit crazy:

-My good friends treated me to brunch!
Invited 70 people to Brunch, waited half an hour alone as no one showed up. As I was leaving, 2 of my friends arrived with their baby, and luckily parked right by my car, and we went back inside for delicious buffet including omlette bar and ceviche and fresh fruit!

-I accidentally rescued a dog!!
When stopping at home after running some errands and before meeting girlfriends for happy hour, I spotted a lost dog panting, running down the street. It's been pretty hot here. I strategically pulled over on the wrong side of the street and encouraged her to keep running in my direction. She waited for me to open the door and hopped right in! Once there I could read her tags and call the local shelter, where she was licensed. I took her in, and they contacted her owner. I felt really good about it, especially after hearing from others in my city that she was running down the street over 4 miles away earlier that day! She left poo that was stuck to her leg in my car, when she sat on a bill envelope, and (I hope) took all the fleas that were everywhere on her. I had to change my dress and was a couple minutes late to meeting girlfriends.

-Free creme brulee! A couple of sweet friends joined me at a local happy hour. We ended up talking for longer than I anticipated, and the restaurant gave us a free creme brulee for my birthday - we shared!

-Free coffee and unforgettable sunset!
I had to postpone the bonfire I tentatively planned, and instead drove up to the highest local peak where there is a park. I hiked up a mini hill in my heels and settled in with my camera. At the beach (where I would've been), it was covered in a thick marine layer that is more like a big fog bank. There were a lot of people, local and visitors, enjoying the beautiful view of the sun melting into the cloud bank. Right before I drove up Starbucks gave me a certificate for a free drink because it was my birthday. ;) On the way back to my car strangers took my picture and gave me a hug. LOL!

-Surprise sushi dinner!
Afterward a long-time friend who missed a couple of connections earlier called me back, and wanted sushi dinner. He treated me to mine, and I got to experience what he orders as a vegetarian, when previously sushi=fish only to me.

The three friends that I started and ended my day with are the same that celebrated with me after my husband went out-of-state following our divorce 2 years ago. At the time, I wasn't sure if it was out of a feeling obligation...they were and still are his friends, too. But now I know what I should have realized then, that they really care.

-Only 10 minutes!
I missed my exit going home because I was housesitting, and before I could turn around at the next one, ran over a road hazard and blew out my back tire. It's a very dark stretch of busy highway, the blaring lights of cars going 70 mph and up as the only light. After calling my roadside service, it took them less than 10 minutes to arrive to save me - just enough time to empty my trunk! ;) Good thing, too, because it was after 10:30 p.m. and I had to go into work early on Monday. As fast as they were, I was really wishing I had gone to the ladies' room before I left sushi. (Eek) I ended up only being about 30 minutes later than I would've been. AND no one got hurt. AND I need to replace *all*four*tires* anyway, so this serves as a good precautionary event.

-There's more!
Luckily, I have next weekend to celebrate Birthday-B with Heather and her husband. I hope to get that beach bonfire in... I have all the supplies.

-Another year wiser!
I've been reminded about what I've neglected, including friendship contact that I don't want to slip away, and real safety concerns with the car upon which I depend--it boils down to the maintenance in my life that seem insignificant because I make it less of a priority, but are important, vital. It puts a different perspective on the healthy habits that I need to rebuild.

I've also reached the pinnacle of my weight regain this year. I'm too close to my -100 pounds lost for comfort, and I am even more committed to moving forward. I've learned a lot in the past 6 months in struggling to progress, which I believe will be invaluable through the next couple of years.


Member Comments About This Blog Post:
MALCONTENTION 7/17/2013 9:48AM

    Belated birthday greetings!

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ANEWMEB440 7/13/2013 11:53PM

    Wowzers, crazy day! Hope you got that bonfire going. emoticon

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ELFITZPA 7/12/2013 8:37PM

    That was one crazy birthday!! Hope you enjoyed it and enjoy your continued celebrations. I hope this year is filled with love, laughter and growth!!

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BEFIT_WITHGUSTO 7/12/2013 6:31PM

    Wow! Quite the eventful birthday! It seriously sounds like you did a week's worth of stuff in one day! Hope you had a fun bonfire, too!

So, I was just looking at my mutual friend list and you're on the list that says you haven't added me as a friend! How did that happen? ;)

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TONBEN 7/10/2013 2:06PM

    Happy Belated Birthday SP friend, hope you made some great wishes and they all come true this year! Sounds like a very eventful day but some great insight for sure, thanks for sharing. emoticon

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KNH771 7/8/2013 1:00PM

    Belated birthday wishes!

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BETHSWORLD 7/8/2013 10:43AM

    Happy Belated Birthday Sweetie! I am so glad you have close friends that you can celebrate your special day with. You have accomplish so keep going girl!

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LINDA! 7/7/2013 8:10PM

    Happy Belated Birthday. This is really a good blog.

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SALLYLEE84 7/7/2013 7:14PM

    Glad you had a great birthday!

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NEWTINK 7/7/2013 5:51PM

    That was some day Happy belated birthday emoticon emoticon

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    Happy belated birthday!

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BARCLE 7/5/2013 11:22PM

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GREGGWEISBROD 7/5/2013 10:30AM

    What an incredibly eventful day!!! Holy smokes! I was hooked to your story like white on rice. That brunch place sounds amazing too! :-D I'm glad that you're able to go through a day of experiences like that and come out focused on the good, and devoted to your goals. I'm rooting for you! Hope you have a great weekend!!

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TRACYZABELLE 7/5/2013 3:33AM

    Hey I am back-- it is a long hard road but all we can do is keep on going!

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FREETOWANDER 7/3/2013 8:22PM

    What a crazy, fantastic day, Joce!! Have a marvelous Birthday-B this weekend!!! Hope you guys get to put together that bonfire :) With this refresh of having just had our birthday's....let's make THIS YEAR our BEST YEAR YET!!!

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MERRY_XMAS 7/3/2013 5:21PM

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JESPAH 7/3/2013 11:52AM

    Onward! What a few days!!

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AMBER281 7/3/2013 11:42AM

    Sounds like a nice day!

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    Sounds like a wonderful day! Best wishes for another great year!!

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HIPPICHICK1 7/3/2013 7:51AM

    WOW! What an eventful day.
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BRADMILL2922 7/3/2013 12:31AM

    A little bit crazy! That is quite a rundown of activities you had going on! Glad to see that you are even more committed moving forward! Onward indeed!

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HAWAIIANMAMMA 7/3/2013 12:30AM

    Wow, that really was a roller coaster! I'm glad you pulled lessons out of it though. I know exactly what you mean about putting friendships and maintenance things on the back burner. it's like we start to take them for granted. thank you for the reminder! I hope your weekend bonfire is fantastic! I'll be thinking of you!

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