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As they say: Men are from Mars, women are from Venus...............

Saturday, June 29, 2013

Wife's Diary:

Tonight, I thought my husband was acting weird. We had made plans to meet at a nice restaurant for dinner.
I was shopping with my friends all day long, so I thought he was upset at the fact that I was a bit late, but he made no comment on it.
Conversation wasn't flowing, so I suggested that we go somewhere quiet so we could talk. He agreed, but he didn't say much.

I asked him what was wrong; He said, 'Nothing...' I asked him if it was my fault that he was upset. He said he wasn't upset, that it had nothing to do with me, and not to worry about it. On the way home, I told him that I loved him. He smiled slightly, and kept driving.
I can't explain his behavior. I don't know why he didn't say, 'I love you, too.'

When we got home, I felt as if I had lost him completely, as if he wanted nothing to do with me anymore. He just sat there quietly, and watched TV.
He continued to seem distant and absent. Finally, with silence all around us, I decided to go to bed. About 15 minutes later, he came to bed.
But I still felt that he was distracted, and his thoughts were somewhere else. He fell asleep; I cried.
I don't know what to do. I'm almost sure that his thoughts are with someone else.
My life is a disaster.

Husbands Diary:

A two-foot putt... who the hell misses a two-foot putt ?

Member Comments About This Blog Post:

    OMG, too funny!

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ROCKYCPA 7/8/2013 10:02AM

    So true - thanks for sharing!

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JUDYBUGS 6/30/2013 2:14PM

    I do. emoticon

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GOANNA2 6/30/2013 7:34AM

    emoticon Men eh what?

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IKACEY 6/30/2013 5:03AM

    So he was just angry at himself and didn't want to take it out on you. That's actually showing you a lot of love as SO's don't always do that. But I know it must have been upsetting a lot to think he might be thinking about somebody else. In Psychology they call it the Attribution Error. Many times people don't respond to us as they usually do and right away we attribute it to them being angry or upset with us, when most of the time it hasn't a single thing to do with us at all and our friends and beloveds still love us just as they always have, they just have something else going on at that moment. emoticon
IKacey co-leader of the Chair Exercise Team

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PHEBESS 6/30/2013 2:41AM

    Oh yeah..........

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WALLAHALLA 6/29/2013 10:10PM


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GRACIEC 6/29/2013 5:34PM

    I think we've all had similar episodes in our lives! Too funny!

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NANCYPAT1 6/29/2013 5:19PM

    Your story says it all - often, as the saying goes, a five cent cigar is JUST a nickel cigar (I think that was W.C. Fields - referring to all the Freudian stuff and suggestions of subliminal sex messages in everything of that era).

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FITKAT62 6/29/2013 12:47PM

    So true!

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L*I*T*A* 6/29/2013 12:09PM

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PEGGYO 6/29/2013 10:06AM

    Isn't that the truth?

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