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Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Just to update...Went and saw mom as my sister in law Michelle Davies took me up to the nursing home today for a while and then she came back to the house to help clean. So a BIG thank you goes out to her. While mom is looking better, her voice is still weak. Also mom is very swollen. Today while I was there the occupational therapist came and she and I took mom out doors as it was a very nice day here in Mason and mom did about 30 minutes of therapy with hand weight exercises. She still will not eat though. I am going to maybe call and see how she is doing, before I go to sleep.

Also today all the stress, all the loneliness, and the fear of the unknown have gotten to me and I broke down and cried twice.

Once when I was with my sister in law and again just a few minutes ago when my brother told me that mom is possibly moving to a long term care place and that I will have to be moved out of this house within maybe three months.

It is scaring the crap out of me right now.

Soothing thoughts and prayers are needed DESPERATELY!.

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JUNEAU2010 6/22/2013 10:29PM

    Prayers freely given!

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ALIHIKES 6/20/2013 9:07PM

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. Is there a social worker or disability advocate that could help you find a place to live? emoticon

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GEORGIAGIRL26 6/20/2013 8:55PM

    I am glad that your mom is doing better.
Sorry you have to move out of your home though.
Will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in Fitness, Holly emoticon

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DEBIGENE 6/20/2013 8:50AM

    Will def keep in you prayer. HUGS and Hopes !!!

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COCK-ROBIN 6/19/2013 11:05PM

    MY prayers are headed your way, Lance.

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FISHER011 6/19/2013 10:55PM

    So sorry Lance! You are in my prayers.
Does the Rehab Center have a Social Worker that you can talk to about your Mother's care & your Home situation? Check & find out because that person can help you by listening to what you have to say. about your Mom & your living situation.
That person should be able to help you.
Take care of yourself! You have to let your emotions out & be able to express them freely-it's OK.
My Son was living with me & taking care of me. He was able to get a place while I was in the rehab care.We also had to move.

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TRYINGTOLOSE64 6/19/2013 9:37PM

    I know how you feel. I'm pretty much in the same boat but don't know when I'll have to move out other then soon.

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