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Tuesday, June 11, 2013

My son has left his wife after almost 6 years of marriage and they have been together for almost 7. She is crushed and so am I! This other woman is someone he knew 17 years ago in the 8th grade and they got reacquainted on a social media site and the "mystery" of her caused him to think he is unhappy with his wife. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt he is making the biggest mistake of his life! His wife is a wonderful girl and they were just made for each other and I know this is just Satan tearing apart another home. He says he can't stand to look at himself in the mirror and that it makes him sick to text this girl but he says he just can't stop himself. Now it has gone from texting and social media to meeting in person. This woman has a reputation all over town as a whore and a home wrecker.The bible calls them whores so that is what I choose to call her. My son's best friend even tried talking to him and tell him about this woman but apparently it didn't help. She was recently beaten by another woman for messing with her husband but my daughter in law is too classy of a lady for any such thing. This woman is also known about town for drugs, attempting to stab an ex-boyfriend and offering money to men to have sex with her. This is not the kind of woman I want in my family and I am afraid of alienating my son when I do face this woman the first time and tell her my opinion of her and I have to remember that I am a Christian when I do this. Please pray not only for me but more especially that my son will come to his senses before he ruins his life! Thank you in advance!

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NELLIEC 6/15/2013 4:15PM

    That is extremely sad. I suspect the woman is demon possessed to be doing such awful things.

I am praying and will be praying!

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RACHAELANN810 6/12/2013 5:41PM

    Your son has some soul searching to do. We can't control our children's experiences we can only be there to love and guide them thru or past it if we are invited. (unless it is drugs/alcohol related as I believe in interventions. However it doesn't sound like your son is on this path.) Sometimes when there is something "missing in side us" we make mistakes that we would normally judge in others, whether it is a lack of God/Christ or what have you , he will have to discover that for himself. My ex did this to me but I knew he was troubled when we married. I had to look at what it was in me that made it possible to pick this person. Your son maybe searching for something on the outside that he is missing on the inside. This woman who sounds like she is in survival mode Ie drugs/drama etc. Will recognize that and manipulate it. Your son will most likely come around but he has to come to that place himself. Sometimes learning from those experiences has to come from a place of great humbling. Love your kid, love his wife and keep to your faith. Hope this helps a bit. Hugs Rachael

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CRAFTSFAN1 6/12/2013 4:01PM

    My prayers for all of you. I hope all this situation will be over for the best soon. emoticon

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OOLALA53 6/12/2013 2:03PM

    You can't know how things will turn out and must go forward with intention but without attachment to the result. That is the paradox of faith that all things are unfolding in God's goodness and love, even if we can't see the value at the moment. It is often in our toughest times that we have a deeper experience of our essence.

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NHES220 6/12/2013 11:58AM

    I will keep your family in my prayers. It is good that your daughter in law has your support.

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68ANNE 6/12/2013 10:13AM

    Oh no...
I've been here (my ex husband did this to me)
The other female had that reputation too

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TNLADY1960 6/12/2013 10:08AM

    Thank you everyone. My son is o dead set against drug users I am just afraid he didn't believe his friend when he told him about her drug use. I hope that by the time he finds out it isn't too late. He just recently turned against one of his cousins because he found out he was using drugs. The devil has a hold of him and I just don't know what it is going to take to make him let go. I just pray continuously for him and I am living in fear of how this is going to turn out. I am trying so hard to trust the Lord but it is hard when I see and hear the hurt from my daughter in law and how my son seems so unconcerned about her feelings.

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DBELLE39 6/12/2013 7:54AM

    Oh dear, my prayers are going up, what a terrible situation in your family right now. Praying for you as God is allowed to work through this.

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IOEINC 6/12/2013 7:43AM

    Prayers for your family. I will light a candle for your son!!

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DIANE7786 6/12/2013 6:14AM

    emoticon You might want to ask a minister for guidance. Is meeting his drug using adulteress accepting his behavior? I apologize if I'm wrong about this, but people who choose drug users as friends (and whatever) usually use drugs. That would explain his sudden change in behavior. If tt's true don't be embarrassed to go to Narcanon meetings. They offer excellent support including how to support your son without enabling him. I'm praying for your family.

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    I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.


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ANDYLIN90 6/12/2013 3:38AM

I'm so's always devastating when adult children seemingly go down the wrong path. If your son is a Christian, I hope he is asking for God's guidance in his life. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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LINDA! 6/11/2013 11:56PM

    Sending prayers! emoticon

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PINKNFITCARLA 6/11/2013 10:56PM

    emoticon So sorry to hear this. I'm sending prayers and I hope he realizes and changes his mind before it's too late.

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TAILORSMOM 6/11/2013 10:56PM

    WILL BE PRAYING !!!! emoticon

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