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I may have to break off all ties to my brother...

Monday, June 10, 2013

This was my brother's face book status yesterday...

Just realized, by myself while working and had a thought. It's time for me to Cowboy up and quit being a Bitch. Why the hell would I get mad at the people that love me the most, and say stupid or hurtful stuff because I am mad at a situation that they had no part of? Especially at the woman that loves me more than anything in this world. God, I would have left my ass years ago. Time for me to grow the hell up. For God's sake, my goatee is almost solid white. You'd think I had learned a long time ago. They aren't guys that can brush this stuff off. They have a mental roll-a-Dex that last for years. BTW, Michelle I am sorry, you are a great cook. I would like dinner, by the way...

He posted this to his face book status yesterday and then today I went with a friend of mine to his place of business as he is the owner of like a foster care agency, but, it is not called that and is instead called a day habitat for disabled individuals like myself.

Anyway...my brother has been in constant daily communications with the people that are from the county that help to oversee and also help make some decisions about me.

Today like I said I went with this man and spent the day with him and a few of his clients.

And while I had fun as I played fooseball and also learned how to play gin rummy...my brother meanwhile was going behind my back and finding out all this false information about me and then called me on my mother's prepaid cellular phone after I got home from a good day and basically called me out and said that I was a liar.

He did not tell me at all what I supposedly lied about or anything...just that I was one.

Then after dinner tonight....Mom calls me and asks me to check on the monthly rental price of a hospital bed for her....She does not know...nor do I, that she may get out of the hospital in about three days to three weeks time (we are getting conflicting information)...and then may be going to a rehab center.

What should I do here?. My mother said that when she gets out of the hospital that even though my brother now has power of attorney over us...that she can retract it....is this true?.

And also should I confront my brother?.

He did not say yet whether he will come to get me tomorrow to go see mom, but if he does, what should I do?.

This has caused me to wake up Saturday morning at 6:00am and start crying.
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  • LISACHOSECHANGE
    I dont know about leagalitties but make sure you do get some advice. I would ask about his facebook page as i cant believe he did that knowing you could see it. It was mean and uncalled for. I am praying bery hard that you can work this out.
    1273 days ago
  • BARBARASDIET
    get a lawyer.
    1273 days ago
  • FISHER011
    You're in my thoughts & prayers. Think/pray about it & write down everything that is happening...
    Bless you Lance!
    1273 days ago
  • ALIHIKES
    So sorry you are having this problem with your brother at the same time as your mom being so sick. I am praying for you. emoticon
    1274 days ago
  • TUPPERWARE1
    All family is nosey and they love to point fingers at the ones hurting the most.Lance you need to speak to a church person or someone you trust that is not family.Your brother sounds like he pushs everybody around.Ask him to find out the price of the bed.Make him do the work.It does not matter what you say or do.I would not confront your brother.Keep a cool head.Do you have free legal advice in your state for low income or the disabled?Your going to be strong .Let them act like jerks.
    1274 days ago
  • COCK-ROBIN
    I hope it gets better for you. I have a similar control freak brother that I don't want to have anything to do with. I pray you make the right decision.
    1274 days ago
  • SOFT_VAL67
    i dont have any answers as for your medical or legal questions, all i can do is offer words of comfort...praying you feel better and are able to mend your broken fences with your family.
    or at least be able to get the answers you seek. emoticon
    1274 days ago
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