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RE: A Certain Shop, / Place That, I Can Not, Go Into !!!! (ASDA). (STPWO)

Thursday, May 23, 2013

RE: A certain shop, / place that, i can not, go into !!!!, (ASDA) if you need, anymore information about, this Shop /, Place then you, are most welcome, to visit my, SparkPage for further, details !!!! !!!!.

This Shop /, Place (ASDA), from which i, was banned !!!!, !!!! !!!! !!!!, has changed so, much from when, i last worked, there/went, into the Shop, itself you may, be asking how, i know all, about this it's, because on Thursday, 31st January 2013, (this year).

I went back, into there to, do my Shopping, & nobody said, anything to me, about the 'BAN', at all 'what, so ever' i just went, about my Business, eg (doing, my Shopping etc, etc etc).

So then on, Friday 1st February, 2013 (this year), i went in, there again to, do my Shopping, & again nobody, took a 'blind, bit of notice', of me 2, them i was, just an ordinary, Customer.

I had been, going in there, every 2 weeks, up until Monday, 25th February 2013, (this year), then as you, know things all, went Pear Shaped, Tits up etc, etc etc etc, however you want, to 'PHRASE THIS'.

The reason why, i got banned, in the 1st, place was because, i was accused, of pushing a, 'Shopping Trolley' into, a Customer's car, which i did, not do as, i was ill, at home when, it was being done, !!!! !!!! !!!!, this was 10, years ago May, / June 2003. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
PATTYKLAVER 5/25/2013 5:37AM

    I am sorry about your problem.

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KAYLSLYNN 5/24/2013 11:31AM


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IKACEY 5/24/2013 5:55AM

    It sounds as if this was a very upsetting time for you, only I don't know what happened. Perhaps it would be good to include details when you blog so we have a context to understand your upset.
I hope the situation in now over and you can let go of it and find a nicer place to shop at.
IKacey co-leader of the Chair Exercise Team

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ALEXSGIRL1 5/23/2013 7:38PM

    so sorry emoticon

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NIGHTSKYSTAR 5/23/2013 4:16PM

    So sorry!!

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NIGHTSKYSTAR 5/23/2013 4:16PM

    So sorry!!

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JTREMBATH 5/23/2013 3:02PM

    I am sorry that you are having all these problems.

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FEMISLIM 5/23/2013 1:48PM

    Glad you could go in and out unnoticed, if that was your wish. Have a great day!!!!

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VONBLACKBIRD 5/23/2013 12:41PM

    So sorry!!!

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3016DEBRA 5/23/2013 12:39PM

  Your blogs always leave me puzzled...have a good day if you can! emoticon

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JUST2MUCH2 5/23/2013 12:18PM

    Not sure I understand what is going on, but it sounds like there is some kind of misunderstandings that have resulted in a lot of pain & confusion for you. Even not understanding the details, I have been "bullied" & misunderstood so that other people have ganged up on me & told me that didn't want me to comeback to a support group for those w/bipolar!

I had gone for yrs. & even was trained to co-lead it & another one w/the therapist in the women's jail. I found it very rewarding, but I attempted to assist one member in the group & developed a friendship & I'm terrible at boundaries (from growing up in a very unstable family) & went way overboard helping her. It started causing problems even in my marriage so my husband & therapist said I needed to disengage as it wasn't a healthy relationship.

Trying to do that caused this huge blow-up & the former "friend" started really bad-mouthing me to the therapist leader.

So I was really denigrated by this person & have been banned from all the support groups! My husband says it's pretty as when you get banned from a support group for the mentally ill!

Yup! No wonder I avoid developing friendships. Have therapy appt. in an hour. Trying to learn how to have healthy boundaries before I even attempt another friendship! I fear I am not good friend material due to my always over giving, overdoing, etc. so that it is not a balanced relationship (give & take). I'm always the giver, like I don't think I am "enough" just as I am. I practically have to "buy" friendships or that is the way I act.

Well, I am also a terrible rambler. Sorry about that. No time to proofread. Need to get in the shower!

My best regards to you in this hard & hurtful situation...

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DR1939 5/23/2013 10:26AM

    Sorry you are having problems.

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JIBBIE49 5/23/2013 9:57AM

    If someone didn't want me as a customer, I'd certainly go elsewhere.

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AWESOMECHELZ 5/23/2013 8:21AM

    I don't understand - a place you were a customer at before, now doesn't want you there anymore? Why? I am sorry about the problem. emoticon

Chelsea emoticon

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SUNSHINE084 5/23/2013 5:13AM


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