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I Smell A Better Day Tomorrow.

Monday, May 13, 2013

Had lunch at the cemetery so was kinda like having mothers day lunch with Mom.

It was very peaceful there as we sit and ate and talked it started sprinkling for a few random times. I miss my mom so much today it just hurts.

I know it's only been 2 years and it's OK to hurt but its just so overwhelming today it feels like it was just yesterday. Moms birthday is the 18th she woul0d have turned 50...
On an angry note someone stole one of the granite flower vases we put by moms tombstone at the cemetery....Who does that?
Tomorrow I will feel better but today I will end it with a tear or 20.

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JUMPINJULIE 5/18/2013 1:11AM


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PLATINUM755 5/13/2013 5:53PM

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ANYVAR54 5/13/2013 3:14PM

    So sorry that thoughts of your Mom still bring sad thoughts. Will pray for you to have comfort.
but what a wonderful way to spend Mother's day, having a picnic lunch at her grave.
Bless you, Ravyna

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AWESOMECHELZ 5/13/2013 2:29PM

    First of all, who would steal stuff at a cemetery?? I am sorry that you have set it up nicely for your mom and someone would take the time to steal it. I guess you will have to cement the thing down next time! Incredible! emoticon

I am SO proud of you since I remember when you were extremely depressed around your mother's death anniversary and all your blogs have shown tremendous healing since then. You are very special and your mom still looks over you.

Sending you LOTS of love from Florida. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

Love, Chelsea

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2BEHEALTHY2014 5/13/2013 1:27PM

    Sorry for your loss.

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WALLAHALLA 5/13/2013 12:26PM

    You were blessed to be graced with a Mother worth missing. I'm glad you have so many wonderful memories of her.

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COOP9002 5/13/2013 12:20PM

    Some people have no class. Hopefully, you will be able to continue to heal through this process.

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SUNRISE141 5/13/2013 10:28AM

    Tears are God's language . I miss my mom to she 's been gone 41 years in November she was 45 when she died . I lost my youngest brother in january it just broke my heart i am so glad i am a christian because in the wee hours of the night Go can be my mom dad brother or whatever i need . THANK YOU FOR BEING ON THE TEAM GOD ANSWERS PRAYER ! emoticon

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SUGARSMOM2 5/13/2013 10:00AM

  sorry about the jerk that took some thing off the grave . that is a shame . Nice that you had a good day .

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GOLFGMA 5/13/2013 8:19AM

    It will always be sad on Mother's day for those who have lost their Mom. My father in law always shed tears on this day even when it had been 30 years after his Mom passed away.

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IAMWINNING 5/13/2013 8:19AM

    I'm sorry you had the negative experience you did yesterday, but I'm glad you found some comfort in eating lunch at the cemetery. I understand about the pain of loss of your Mother; mine died two years ago, too. Yesterday was her birthday, so it was doubly painful to think about. Young people often do not show respect in cemeteries any more. I don't know why; perhaps their parents haven't taught them to be respectful.

I pray you will be comforted.

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PATTYKLAVER 5/13/2013 7:59AM

    I'm sorry that it was such a hard day for you. emoticon

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SARASMILING 5/13/2013 5:38AM

    That is awful! It is probably a teenager feeling like it's part of his right of passage kind of thing but they just don't get that it hurts people. I'm so sorry! emoticon

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JANTWO 5/13/2013 12:39AM

    My mother died when I was 18 and my dad died in 1997. I cannot tell you how many times their flowers have been stolen from a perpetual care cemetery. I don't know who does that, but it really is complete disrespect for the loved ones.

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COCK-ROBIN 5/13/2013 12:20AM

    Glad you had a good day.

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JO88BAKO 5/13/2013 12:20AM

    shame on the thief

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