Saturday, May 11, 2013
Yesterday a friend whom I talk with every day, said she needed to "talk to me". It's never good when someone says this, she asked if I was upset with her. Since I started my healthy makeover in January, we don't go out shopping and lunch 3-4 times a week as we use to nor do we have cocktails on her porch. DH & I also moved into our lake house which is only 3 miles away rather than just down the street as before and she is upset that we aren't down the street. I have also been very busy with my volunteer work, which keeps me on the speaking circuit.
I assured her that as I did call her every day, which showed my sincerity of our friendship, but that I was committing to a healthier lifestyle and reminded her that in January, I told her I would not be going on our outings as we had in the past. Her reply was that I should go to the gym less. She also went on to tell me that my top made me look fat.
This was someone who supported by healthy change initially, but now that I am smaller than her, I think she is changing her tune. Has this happened to you?