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It happened again

Wednesday, May 01, 2013

I want to thank all of you again for your comments about "no kiss". Unfortunately it happened again. I must say tho, he couldn't find his glasses this morning and was in a big hurry to get out of the house. But no kiss when he got home. I give up. It's not his priority. I'm going to concentrate on me. I should say, there is more to this story but I'm not one to air my dirty laundry. Thanks again for listening! emoticon

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BLONDIE218145 5/1/2013 11:29PM

    Ty Fenway for your comment but he warned me he wasn't the missy huggy guy I wanted. Only being married 5 years, he's all but said he's not feeling it anymore. We live separate lives and he seems to like my not intruding upon it. Thank you again.

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FENWAYGIRL18 5/1/2013 11:15PM

    I can honestly say that out of the almost 19 yrs together, he's never ever forgotten to give me a kiss before he leaves, comes home or before going to sleep.... He's big on it always has been, but let me tell you why cause he sees me always after him giving little pats on the butt or just rubbing his neck for no reason, saying I love you for no reason and we always hold hands.
When he leaves for work I sit at the window and blow kisses like I did from day one and have always shown him a ton of affection, so he shows it back.
It sounds like maybe you haven't shown him a lot of affection and so he's not use to giving back ( I could be wrong, maybe I am).
You telling us isn't going to get you kisses, he's your husband and you either need to sit down and talk with him or show him a little more affection and I bet he'll give it back in truck loads!
Guys usually give what they get, give him some attention just because and he'll do the same. You can't just say your going to concentrate on yourself cause this will eat at you, your married this is suppose to be the one man , one person you can do or say anything to in the world your soul mate , best friend.
Be open and honest, guys love to kiss be more loving and he will be to, he might not even realize he's doing it or maybe he figures you don't really care one way or the other, men need attention also, I'm sure he's missing your lips as much as your missing his...

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