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What Do You Do?


Tuesday, April 30, 2013

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What do you do when your body won’t do what you’d like it to do?
What do you do when your body is beginning to take shape in ways you’d rather it didn’t?
What do you do when you simply cannot restrict yourself as harshly as you used to do?
What do you do when you’re fighting chronic fatigue and can’t find the energy to exercise?
What do you do when you find yourself having to wear shapewear everyday because your body is beginning to look funny in your clothes?

No really, these aren’t rhetorical questions, I need answers.

Good God, I’m frustrated.

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RUNNER4LYFE 5/1/2013 5:18AM

    Stephi is a wise one, B.....Listen to her. U need to accept what is and let it go. Trying to change what u can not will only drive u crazy. Let go of all the crazy society-imposed expectations and BE YOU. Stop being afraid of letting ppl down, of disappointing others and DO YOU. There is only one YOU in this world and right now, ur going absolutely MAD bc ur not pleasing everyone. Once you learn to love YOURSELF, everything will fall into place.
Lots of love
B

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MERRY_XMAS 4/30/2013 4:28PM

    Hey girl!
Have been super busy and I really needed a break. Now, I'm back.
What do you do when your body won’t do what you’d like it to do?
I give it some rest.

What do you do when your body is beginning to take shape in ways you’d rather it didn’t?
I'm in maintenance for more than a year and my body still changes. Let it do what it likes and eventually everything will work out in the best way. Even my boobs are back!

What do you do when you simply cannot restrict yourself as harshly as you used to do?
That's why I was on a break. I needed it; I couldn't say no to anything. Now my batteries are charged and I'm ready to be careful again.

What do you do when you’re fighting chronic fatigue and can’t find the energy to exercise?
I hate exercising. I simply don't do it. I eat less and I try to take the stairs, walk etc. But I don't exercise.

What do you do when you find yourself having to wear shapewear everyday because your body is beginning to look funny in your clothes?
As I wrote, your body will change even after you reach your goal. It needs time to take the "right" shape. And by "right" I mean the shape that will be ideal for you; not what fashion says is right.

PS. Loved the photos in your previous blogs. You look amazing!!! I haven't seen your blogs for about a month and the difference is sooo obvious! Well done!!!

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SUGAR0814 4/30/2013 2:31PM

    P - Pray

U - Until

S - Something

H - Happens

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ONTHEPATH2 4/30/2013 2:27PM

    Been there, felt that!!! I think we all probably have been there or we wouldn't be here! Well, you can do nothing and keep asking those questions, or you can do something different. Show yourself some love and make some small, positive changes! You are worth it and deserve it!!!

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ILOVEMALI 4/30/2013 2:19PM

    Well, I got a blood test and a meds check. Dr. One decided all is A-Ok. I looked at a couple of values and decided that I need to send the test results to my other doctor. Gotta do that, as I'm not so sure. So far, my mood and decision-making skills with regard to my weight are on coast. I don't get very far coasting.

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STEFIGURL 4/30/2013 2:18PM

    ACCEPTANCE AND SURRENDER are the keys to my peace and joy.
Let go and let God!
You are exactly who you are supposed to be in this moment!

love you,
stephi

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