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No kiss!!!

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Since my Hubs doesn't read my precious SP blog, I can ask if anyone else gets upset if you don't get a morning kiss goodbye? Not to be dramatic but I always hoped he would be my biggest supporter. I'm so happy to have all of you!! emoticon

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BLONDIE218145 4/30/2013 11:20PM

    ALL of you are what I look forward in seeing everyday. To respond it bothers me alot but not at all to hubs because it happens alot. I have told him but it's not a priority for him. I work at home, I am sometimes not up and I'm not going to stress any longer about this. I do think "what if's". But you can lead a horse to water............. emoticon Thank You !!!

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A_NEW_CHAPTER 4/30/2013 10:03AM

    emoticon Maybe he doesn't know. Sometimes guys are a bit clueless about mushy things but I think deep down they want/need it too, even if they won't admit it.

It seems in some areas women have to take the lead, or at least open the door - guys just don't get it, or we've sent them mixed messages in the past so they're afraid to do anything.

I would go to the door and call him back! "Hey, you're forgetting something!" Be playful and genuine.

I've "run" down the driveway and made hubby stop the car and roll the window down ... I always think "what if this is the last time I see him? How would I want to remember our last moment together?".

It's important to me so I make sure it happens (except, like this morning when he left for work at 5:30, normally it's 7:30. I don't do 5:30, LOL but I'll probably talk/text him at some point this morning and we always say "I love you")

It hasn't always been this way - there was point in our marriage when it wasn't on the radar at all - it was all we could do to live in the same house. Nothing changed until I changed. But that's another story.

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RITEEBEE 4/30/2013 9:42AM

    I can honestly say it's never happened. I think I probably would be upset but I'd be reminding him of what he missed!! haha

It's always a quick kiss, but a kiss non the less. My morning wouldn't be the same without it.

Maybe he doesn't know how important it is to you. I'm sure he supports you!! Let him know it really starts your day right and I'm sure he will never forget again.


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MOMMAPAM1 4/30/2013 8:16AM

    It bothers me when I don't get a goodbye kiss. My hubby leaves for work at 3:30 am so most of the time I'm asleep, but I knew when he would come over to kiss me. Of course when he's upset with me I don't get a kiss. emoticon

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RIDLEYRIDER 4/30/2013 8:09AM

  My hubby will remember most of the time....sometimes I have to remind him!

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AZMOMXTWO 4/30/2013 8:04AM

  I am single so I can not answer that
but my boys always say they love me does that help


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THEEXERCISER 4/30/2013 8:03AM

    I am not currently dating but when I was yes that would upset me.

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