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today im celebrating my 9th wedding anniversary alone

Sunday, April 28, 2013

Yes today is my 9th wedding anniversary n I'm alone. My husband is in the hospital an hour away from home.
We married in 2004. He is an alcoholic/addict. On our honeymoon he ended up in jail in Ohio for a week. Then about 5 months later I found out I was blessed with a baby so he wanted to go back to Ohio to spread the joy with friends n family n of course he was drinking so he ended up back in jail for another week then we bailed him out then the judge sentenced him to another week. Luckily the judge was understanding n allowed him to put it off for a month bc he had a week vacation coming the week of Thanksgiving. So I spent that Thanksgiving alone n pregnant. Our son was born 4 months later. When he turned a ye old Wayne quit drinking. Finally, thankfully. Then 7 months ago on September 22 my baby sister died who had just turned 29 a week before died. He started drinking again. March 2nd I had to have him arrested he spent 2 wks in jail then I bailed him out again he hasn't been to court yet but its scheduled for May 2nd. He decided he was gonna check into in patient treatment but while we were waiting on the doc to find an open bed for him somewhere he decided he wanted 1 last goodtime n he went crazy tried to kill himself, tried to get the police to kill him. He threatened to kill the police thinking that they would kill him. Any how he did die but was resuscitated n in coma for 2 1/2 days. This happened on Tuesday. They took him off life support n put him in the psychiatric rehab hospital on Friday night. He is doin good now. I'm praying to God that they keep him for a 28 day program n praying to God that he stays clean n takes whatever depression meds they give him. I hope n pray for the best outcome of this situation.
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  • BEULAH45
    Oh, my, bless your heart. Life can be unfair and rough sometimes and God bless you for hanging in there. I hope and pray things get better for you and your family. I'm sad to hear about your sister and husband, but glad that you are reaching out to your Spark Community for support.
    My 35th wedding anniversary was 4/21 and we've had rough patches, but we made it and now our marriage is strong and healthier. You can, too.
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  • JOHGLO2011
    So sorry you are alone but mostly for the reason for it. We are here for you to lean on and know that we are praying for the very best outcome! emoticon
    1727 days ago
    I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I hope you have some real time family and friend support. I'll be praying for you and your situation too.
    1727 days ago
    My goodness, my heart goes out to you..... emoticon
    1727 days ago
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