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Friday, April 26, 2013

Hello Beautiful People!

Well, I’m loving life, loving me, and doing me to the fullest. You all know I love the hula hoop, so I did upload a hula hooping recording from yesterday. I’m just doing me –no matter how I look, I’m doing me. This is all just for fun, but try explaining that to your “concerned-zealous-jealous” husband.

Our conversation went a little something like this.
Husband:What are you going to do with that video I just saw on your computer?
Wife:I'm going to upload it to sparks.
Concerned-Husband: Men! Are watching you hula hoop!
Zealous -Husband:Do you think it’s too sexy for sparks!
Jealous-Husband:Why are you doing this –what are you trying to prove?

Wife with new lease on life: All things are possible, doable, and they can be done.
Overzealous Husband: I don’t want men looking at my wife!
Proud Wife: What do you mean in“MEN”? Trick question y’all.
Overzealous Husband: Any men.
Proud Wife: So you’re trying to say that WO/MEN can’t look at me –view my success, view my joy, view how proud I am of myself, and get a drop of motivation or a jump start from me.

Overzealous Husband: Yeah! Them Too!

Happy Wife: (I can’t believe he’s jealous)
Husband, you didn’t ask for this weight loss –remember, you didn’t ask for me to change –remember, you would have loved for me to have stayed the same –remember, you liked me either way –skinny, in between or fat. Well husband! I’m not depressed anymore. Sure! You gave me a drop of strength to carry on, but I needed something else. I needed someone to support me and motivated me to carry on as well, and those MEN & WOMEN are my friends and they support me; as I do them.
So what’s the big issue?

Sad point understood Husband: I guess you run this now huh!
Happy that he gets it Wife: Yes! I run me. I sure do run me.
Confused husband: Did you just win?
Happy & Proud Wife: No. And I left it at that.

Ladies, when you are doing something so-so-so good in your life, and it makes you feel complete don’t change yourself just to satisfy someone’s ego. Keep on doing you!

Peace & Blessings
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  • RDEE22
    Go Girl!! Great Blog. emoticon
    1733 days ago
  • MJ7DM33
    WTG on doing you! Thx for sharing!
    1733 days ago
    Lynn and Dear Husband -- Let me tell you, Lynn is OH SO INSPIRING! I admire your skill & stamina with the hoop, and even more so for standing up and looking after yourself! You can really go, Girl! I derive joy from just watching you!

    So.... (here comes the inspirational part) I did some research and bought my own hoop to work with! I haven't done it since I was a kid but I am excited at the very thought of it!
    I'm sure it will take me a good deal of patience & practise to get as good as you, but I look forward to the challenge!

    You Go Girl!!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1733 days ago
    1733 days ago
    Well, I say keep doing you!!!!Been there done that emoticon !!!! Would he rather have an unhealthy wife? emoticon Listen, I had this issue even with taken my classes for my degree and it wasn't as nice as your conversion, but I tell you what I won emoticon !!! It took me a minute to realize that I forgot how to love me, but once I realized that I had to stop putting everybody first and start loving me, it was on and popping emoticon !!! You look great! Stay encouraged and most of all keep hoop dance emoticon !!! emoticon
    1733 days ago
    Way to rock your hoop! Your puppy was so cute. For a minute he blended in with the workout equipment when he was being still. emoticon

    WTG being strong in who you are and what you do.
    1733 days ago
    Now, that's some GOOD preachin'! Thanks for sharing!
    1733 days ago
  • STR458
    girls!!! won the world! emoticon way to hoop it!
    1733 days ago
    Wow!! emoticon emoticon
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    1733 days ago
    lol!!!! Husbands!!! You handled that conversation so well :) your awesome success needs to be shared with the world, it motives us and inspires us, thank you. He definitely sees and appreciates your achievements even more now I bet :) emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1733 days ago
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