Hello Beautiful People!
Well, I’m loving life, loving me, and doing me to the fullest. You all know I love the hula hoop, so I did upload a hula hooping recording from yesterday. I’m just doing me –no matter how I look, I’m doing me. This is all just for fun, but try explaining that to your “concerned-zealous-jealous” husband.
Our conversation went a little something like this.
Husband:What are you going to do with that video I just saw on your computer?
Wife:I'm going to upload it to sparks.
Concerned-Husband: Men! Are watching you hula hoop!
Zealous -Husband:Do you think it’s too sexy for sparks!
Jealous-Husband:Why are you doing this –what are you trying to prove?
Wife with new lease on life: All things are possible, doable, and they can be done.
Overzealous Husband: I don’t want men looking at my wife!
Proud Wife: What do you mean in“MEN”? Trick question y’all.
Overzealous Husband: Any men.
Proud Wife: So you’re trying to say that WO/MEN can’t look at me –view my success, view my joy, view how proud I am of myself, and get a drop of motivation or a jump start from me.
Overzealous Husband: Yeah! Them Too!
Happy Wife: (I can’t believe he’s jealous)
Husband, you didn’t ask for this weight loss –remember, you didn’t ask for me to change –remember, you would have loved for me to have stayed the same –remember, you liked me either way –skinny, in between or fat. Well husband! I’m not depressed anymore. Sure! You gave me a drop of strength to carry on, but I needed something else. I needed someone to support me and motivated me to carry on as well, and those MEN & WOMEN are my friends and they support me; as I do them.
So what’s the big issue?
Sad point understood Husband: I guess you run this now huh!
Happy that he gets it Wife: Yes! I run me. I sure do run me.
Confused husband: Did you just win?
Happy & Proud Wife: No. And I left it at that.
Ladies, when you are doing something so-so-so good in your life, and it makes you feel complete don’t change yourself just to satisfy someone’s ego. Keep on doing you!
Peace & Blessings