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Me time!

Thursday, April 25, 2013

This weekend I'm going to have some ME time. I know I took some as a young mother, an hour with no children to take a bath, grocery shop or visit a friend. Sometimes, I would go down to my church and spend a little time praying or helping clean on a Friday, sans children. Even when we had our babysitting co-op some of our group would go bowling, to a movie, meet their hubby for lunch or some such activity. This crazy lady volunteered at the middle school library.
After Erik's accident I really did not have much me time. A friend of mine insisted that I join her at another of her friend's cabin in the mountain. Erik was still in the hospital at the time for rehabilitation, and I was as anxious as a cat on a hot tin roof. But I did get to share my angst with my friends and for the most part got some much needed rest.

Last spring I treated my self to a silent retreat at the Ignatius House near Atlanta. Erik's older brother and sister made sure that all of Erik's needs were met, and shared "custody" over that weekend. I was still uptight with end of the school year stresses, but I managed to regroup spiritually, emotionally and physically ( I rested more and I walked the grounds quite a bit.) Friday evening I'm leaving for another silent retreat, I'm so looking forward to it. Some of my closest friends cannot believe I can manage to be quiet from Friday after dinner until Sunday lunch-but I can and I love it. The quiet, the introspection, reflection and opportunity to just marvel at nature was what I needed and what I believe I need some more of.
I've spoken to the retreat director about some who felt it absolutely necessary to talk during this SILENT retreat last year, actually I was asking how to cut them off w/o talking myself.
Now, I need to work on what I eat as well, I gained weight last year-they feed us so well.
Please keep me in your thoughts, I'll be praying for each of my SFs. If I said I'd pray for you I'll be holding you up more this weekend.
I need a total break. Steven & Lisa will be sharing Erik again this weekend, and Lisa will be bringing Erik up to my DIL's Sprinkle Sunday and I'll get Erik there.
Friday I'll go to Jazzercise, pack my bags, finish the gifts for the Sprinkle and help Erik pack. When Steven gets here, I'll leave for some peace and quiet and my only responsibility will be to be there for the lectures and not talk. So I'll be off line from Friday afternoon through Sunday. Erik and I will have a mini vacation from each other.

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    Nice photograph and Oh how nice the cake!!!
    I hope you had great weekend and a very restful time to yourself. I hope the surroundings are lovely and your silence is golden. HUGS Dear spark friend and enjoy your day. Pat in Maine emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1153 days ago
    First, I love the picture. Hope you had a great time. I can see where that would be very restful and peaceful.

    hugs...Mary Anne
    1153 days ago
    I hope you had a great weekend and feel rested and refreshed. It is so great that you were able to get away.
    1155 days ago

    Comment edited on: 4/29/2013 5:33:58 PM
    I hope you had a great retreat, and came back all refreshed!
    1155 days ago

    Comment edited on: 4/29/2013 4:45:14 PM
    Enjoy your ME time Gini!!!!! Enjoy the quiet and reconnection with yourself...its very much deserved!!!! Everyone needs that and a silent weekend retreat sounds like wonderful medicine!!!

    1158 days ago

    Comment edited on: 4/26/2013 12:00:40 PM
  • v GAMMY98
    Good for you we all need to do this from time to time. I was a care taker for a lot of years and some times I got to go home for the evening and other times I would be a live in care taker. Taking care of a family member is even more difficult. You need to take these breaks and for you knowing that you need them. emoticon
    1159 days ago
    Enjoy the retreat and renew the mind and spirit. emoticon
    1159 days ago
  • v BAKER1009
    That's awesome, I'm so happy for you (and a tad jealous!). I hope you enjoy the time and can really relax this time!!

    1159 days ago
    You sooooooooooooooooo deserve this and need it! i will be praying that it will be a fantastic experience for you.
    1159 days ago
  • v JANET552
    I'm so glad you have this opportunity. Perhaps we can talk sometime next week.

    1159 days ago
    Have a blessed weekend and enjoy your metime. Will be praying for you. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
    1159 days ago
    emoticon me time is very important...enjoy it!
    1159 days ago
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