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THE HARD TRUTH ABOUT HELP


Thursday, April 18, 2013

Today was difficult. I actually dragged myself to exercise after constant mental reminders of my goal to lose weight, and the benefits associated with them. I've been slacking off for the past three days and I really needed to make a move today. And I did. I was able to jog for twenty-five minutes around my house. At the end of it all as I stood, slumped over, my hands on my thighs breathing deeply, I recognised that I needed help. I needed to create activities that would help me, motivate me, encourage me. And I did. I printed my goals out and stuck them to my walls, I started this blog, joined spark coach and I asked my brother for his advice and aid. It was a bit difficult admitting to myself that I had a huge chance of giving up on this journey, that I've recently started. But I learnt today that all I had to do was swallow some pride, and recognise the need for help then ask for it, act upon it. Guess what? I'm still here. I'm still moving forward and I'm taking it one day at a time.
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WATERDIAMONDS 4/20/2013 3:10PM

    BEAUTIFUL!! Admitting you need support is a big step, and doing so this early in your journey is starting off on the right foot.

The only other thing I'd suggest is that you take advantage of all SP has to offer: For example, take time to find some teams that match your needs and just join in. You will be amazed at how many other SP are willing to help when you really need it.

Best of success to you.
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TRIANGLE-WOMAN 4/19/2013 6:16AM

   
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.´*.¸.•´♥ Welcome to Spark People! Welcome to Spark Blogging!

On thing I would suggest is: Keep collecting Spark Friends like candy!! It is calorie free and they always give you something to "chew on"!!

You can just "friend" them...no need to ask. We are friendly and don't bite!

You can find motivation and inspiration from everyone here, even those that are struggling (because you know how they feel!!) Welcome new people, Join teams, blog, join challenges, blog, be excited, blog. And did I mention: blog? The future fabulous you will want to look back at your journey and will want to encourage others!! When the excitement wanes (it WILL!!) put down your pom poms and lurk in the background, (but don't leave and don't do too much damage) and wait for the tide to turn...pick up your oars and keep rowing.

You can do this!!

“Change takes time. It takes time for the seeds to begin growing within, time to understand the process, time for the growth to mature, and time for the old self to die and fall away.” -Bryant McGill

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.´*.¸.•´♥ We can do it one day at a time!!

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`*♥☆ Keep Spreading the Spark!!!

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