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Saturday, April 13, 2013

Doing a lotta thinking right now and one thing I'm realizing is this I can't make or break another person,I can make them or not make them love me for who I am,I can't change other peoples opinions and thoughts about me..there are a lotta things in life I simply don't have control over all I can do is be who I am nothing more nothing less..the right people will love me for exactly who I am right now not who I might be tomorrow and not who I was yesterday..the right person will accept my strengths and talents but will also accept my weakness and deficits..the right person will accept that my past is simply that my past it does not govern or rule who I am today and who I will be tomorrow..I can only keep moving forward and restrict the amount of time I keep looking back..and the hardest thing to do now after realizing this is going to be to keep pushing forward and keep striving for better..I can do this and I will do matter how scary situations in life will be just to know that I am strong,I am loveable,and I am worthy of being happy..the right people will come into my life when they are supposed to and the wrong people will leave my life when they are supposed to..and while I'm striving for better I need to stand on my own and be strong for myself..

Member Comments About This Blog Post:
JIBBIE49 4/16/2013 12:11PM

    My favorite BUDDHA saying is:

“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path.”

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HAWTGRANNY2014 4/15/2013 1:13PM

    It only matters what you think of yourself. Don't worry about what others think. I really believe that all things happen for a reason. We just have to listen and really focus on what is going on now not in the past. We have all done things that we regret and we can't go back and change them. I think that some of us put on weight like a shell a protective barrier. Why? I am not sure but it is different for most people...whether we think ourselves unworthy or we want people to stay away because we have been hurt..only way we can know is to go inside.
I hope you truly realize how special you are. We were all made by God and he only made one of each of us. We are born with hopes and dreams and somewhere along the way are challenged by life to keep that connection to the spirit.
Just remember that each day is a new day and that we can change it by taking another path.

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NEEDTOLOOSE1 4/14/2013 8:35PM

    What a great blog. I am always reminded that I must live in the moment. Yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not here yet so that just leaves the present. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SMILES4383 4/14/2013 9:30AM

    Self confidence is the stronger motive.

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MJ7DM33 4/14/2013 12:51AM


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IKACEY 4/13/2013 10:33PM

    emoticon Blog. You have hit on a most important Truth. Which Christ says Will set you free..... free to do what you need to do with your life and to make new healthy choice about yourself and what you will do with your life. Way to go!
Dr Suess had it right when he said "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"
IKacey co-leader of the Chair Exercise Team

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SILVERWITCH59 4/13/2013 9:40PM

    What a wonderful thing you have just discovered. It is so true, Many people never realize that .WAY TO GO! It is okay to release the people from your life that try to keep you down too emoticon

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SPARKFRAN514 4/13/2013 8:41PM

    Life is too short to stress yourself with people who don't even deserve to be an issue in your life." Anonymous **HOO boy . . . so true!** this was a status from a friends page this week emoticon
Look at life through the windshield, not the rear-view mirror” -Byrd Baggett it sounds like you are doing this moving forward and sparking along I have to agree its a we all need to remember we can only change ourselves and that is the important thing to remember. emoticon

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68ANNE 4/13/2013 8:08PM

    That's one of those things to print and keep to look back on!

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SPARKLISE 4/13/2013 6:12PM

    You are stronger than you think! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
love your attitude emoticon

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SALLYKWITT 4/13/2013 2:34PM

    Rooting for you!

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ALIALI2013 4/13/2013 1:04PM

    I love this, seeing you realize that the only one who can truly make you happy is yourself, until that happens you will only make yourself miserable. I'm glad to see you've come to that conclusion, because then everything else follows. I wish you the best that life has to give!

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CAPECODLIGHT 4/13/2013 12:03PM

    Use the energy you have for the present and the future - not the past. You are on the right path!

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DIET_FRIEND 4/13/2013 8:22AM

    Great clarity.

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PATTYKLAVER 4/13/2013 7:12AM

    You've got the right attitude. Remember you can always choose to walk away from the wrong people.

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DEBRA0818 4/13/2013 6:18AM

    Freed from other people's opinions about me, I become free to forget about myself and focus on being of service to others -- that is the miracle of our Program of Recovery!


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BONNIEMARGAY 4/13/2013 4:24AM

    Love is a miracle.

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DOVESEYES 4/13/2013 2:50AM

    You got that right!!!!

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RONNIEHUEY 4/13/2013 2:35AM

    Great blog

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