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LIFE IS HARD

Saturday, April 06, 2013

I thought I was starting to get my life back on track and I was eliminating people that was being negative and not respecting me. Then I start to go down hill again, and start to beat myself down and listen to them haters, and am back in that depression stage and feel like I am worth nothing!
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  • SIMPLE_TAILOR
    Bogwash!

    Just remember that those who bring people down are just insecure with themselves and need someone to join in the misery.
    1299 days ago
  • MSGRANNYMAE
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    1335 days ago
  • ANDREWMOM
    I have bene there - I have learned to tune those dumb a@@'s out and just live as happy a life as I can.
    1337 days ago
  • BUSYGRANNY5
    Keep on keeping on... my thoughts are with you!!!
    1337 days ago
  • PLMITCH
    Time to eliminate people again who make you feel this way!
    1338 days ago
  • SILVERWITCH59
    emoticon I think haters are just jealous and bored. Hold you head high be proud and give those losers some good stuff to talk about
    1338 days ago

    Comment edited on: 4/7/2013 6:27:12 PM
  • CAPECODLIGHT
    You were on the right track to eliminate the negative people, but it is very easy to slip back into what we have always done or known. If you need help making the separation from these people, please get it. And know that there are a whole bunch of Sparkers who think you are pretty special!
    1338 days ago
  • JTREMBATH
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    1338 days ago
  • HAWTGRANNY2014
    We are all special, one of a kind people. We are different for a reason. It would be boring if we all thought and acted alike. You have to learn to have faith in yourself and not worry about what others think. What do you think of yourself? What are the things you like? It is your life and it is up to you to make of it what you will. You can duck under heavy criticism or you can come up and be you. Go inside and pull that strength out. Find things that you enjoy and really live in life and don't just pass through it.
    1338 days ago
  • PATTYKLAVER
    I have been fighting depression on and off for years. That's when I start exercising more and finding new things for me to do. When it gets really bad, then it's back to the doctor.
    1338 days ago
  • REJOHNSON3
    I find that exercise helps me. Would you be able to fit in a good walk like maybe twenty minutes or so. Today would be a great day for a walk. Take some deep breaths and look for the sprouting daffodils. Look up at the trees too they are all sprouting. Things are coming to life this spring. Give it a try.
    1338 days ago
  • BEEJAY49
    You are worth so much more than those negative people. They are in your life for one reason only and that's to sabotage your goals. Do not listen to them. You are worth more than they are if they're trying to undermine what you want to accomplish. Yes, life is hard but the good news is, we are given the right to make choices in our lives and we can choose to be happy and healthy. I choose that for you and I hope you can choose that for yourself too. HUGS!
    1338 days ago
  • MEDDYPEDDY
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    1339 days ago
  • -WRKNG2ABTTRME-
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    1339 days ago
  • SPARKFRAN514
    those people are like the voices that tell you to eat no spark food I know its hard but work on turning those voices off they pick at you because they are not happy with them selves or feel bad because you are trying to improve your life style it makes them feel good to bring you down Always remember that you are worth the effort

    "Good things come to those who "weight" or at least go slower in their journey!"

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    1339 days ago
  • LALMEIDA
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    1339 days ago
  • MELMOMOF4
    you are worth so much more than them. don't let them bring you down. just because you sent them on there way you are still letting them win. stay positive. you are worth it. emoticon
    1339 days ago
  • SANDICANE
    Oh no! Don't go there in your mind!!! Being happy is just like changing our eating habits...it takes practice, practice, practice! Don't give up! You can do it!

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    Sandi
    1339 days ago
  • MOTHEPRO
    You are worth it! Don't give up on yourself. emoticon
    1339 days ago
  • BLUEFAIRYTALE
    We are all here for you, and you ARE worth it! emoticon emoticon
    1339 days ago
  • PROUD-GRANDMA
    You are sooo worth it! emoticon
    1339 days ago
  • NYHARDHAT_1
    I went down that road years ago. It's like anything else. You just have to continue to want it and keep after it. You also have to learn to find your voice and speak up. That was the hardest part for me. I was one of those "yes" people.
    I was lucky enough to take a course when I became supervisor that was called "dealing with difficult people". It changed my life and gave me the courage to speak up and confront those kind of people. I can easily turn my back and walk away. No is one of the top words in my vocbabulary. You can do this. Just keep at it. Don't give your power to anyone. Confront them. Even it is to just tell them they will not talk/treat you that way. You will be surprised how much easier it gets with some practice. (just like the exercise and the food journals.

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    Cindy
    1339 days ago
  • KAREN2LOSE55
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  • OOLALA53
    Those are just your thoughts. They come and go. You don't need to criticize yourself because you have aches and pains that come and go, no? The thoughts probably really don't make any real difference in what you need to do next. Get involved in planning good meals and some exercise, straighten up the house, do something you enjoy. Just do the good things for yourself anyway and try to divert your thoughts to concentrating on what you're doing at the moment. The air around you is the same, the weather is the same, your surroundings are the same; these are all good things that show your real stability. Your thoughts can whirl around and change, but you are basically still just here, living and breathing and for this moment, it's enough!
    1339 days ago
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