Wednesday, April 03, 2013
So I am having these talks with Andrew to try to help him with his problem. lat night he told me that he knows when he holds it but not when he goes until it is in his underwear. so i suggested to him instead of holding it, just to to the bathroom and let it out. He said he would try and also said that when other's tell him negative things (you'll never get this, you are not trying, you don't care) it makes him not want to try. I explained to him that prople say things in fustration and that he shold not really let that bother him and he understands but still gets hurt by the comments. I wonder if we keep having these little talks that it would make a difference. I so want this to be finished not just for him but for me and Hubby... it is causing SO MUCH STRESS in the family and it not fair to any of us but, once this IS finally over...sigh... I am sure somethign else will pop up and we will deal with it as well. That is the way life is!