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My best friend's husband passed.

Monday, April 01, 2013

One of the worst weekends of my life...

I haven't been on here since Wednesday afternoon. This is my first day back to work. My roommate as well as my best friend's husband passed away on Wednesday night. He was 41 and had a heart attack. Saturday was his birthday.

I am dealing but not to good. I checked for a pulse and called 911. I trying my best but... I feel sick. I feel tired. I am having a hard time coming to terms.

I am so grateful that my boyfriend, Roger's best friend, and Jamie's sister could be here for the weekend. I don't know if I could have dealt with my grief and Jamie's grief too.

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LYNNWILK2 4/2/2013 2:46PM

    emoticon and I am so sorry. That is a horrible experience to have to go through and witness.
You're going to feel tired for a while, shock does that to the body.
Just remember to breath really deep in and out a few times a day and that you are loved enough to love someone else through their absolute worst time of their life.

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LESLEE33 4/1/2013 11:04PM

    emoticon Very sorry for your loss

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ISAVEDME80 4/1/2013 5:59PM

    when i lost my mom the only thing that helps is time, i to watched her die...
. eventho you weren't related to him finding someone like that is going to be hard for you to cope without counseling to handle it because you have to cope with the loss plus finding him. its not a easy road. so i suggest you get help from counseling. that doesn't say anything is wrong with you its just the safest way in healing after such a traumatic event. it will help you cope and be able to heal and begin to grieve.
I will say a prayer for your friend and her family for their loss of a loved one and for you so you can cope with your process of accepting and being there for your friend because she will need you more than anything.

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SLIMMERJESSE 4/1/2013 4:49PM

    Very sorry for your loss. How sad!

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CONLB1984 4/1/2013 4:08PM

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know nothing any of us say will or could even begin to take away the pain. In time, things will hurt less. Take comfort that you and your friend seem to have a great support system. Hang in there!!!

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TXTOAD9970 4/1/2013 3:58PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. What a tragedy. He was too young! My heart goes out to you and your best friend.

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