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Rotten Weekend

Monday, April 01, 2013

So this weekend was not good. At all. A female friend of my husband's hinted around to me that she's leaving her husband for my husband. Now don't get me wrong, I trust my husband and know it isn't true, at least on his part. But I have a huge problem that he doesn't want to cut ties with her. He says she's just a friend and she isn't going to cause problems. I keep telling him she's already caused the problem. To me it feels like he is choosing her friendship over our marriage. He says it's not but I can't help but feel that way and he doesn't get it. So needless to say I am not backing down on this one. There's no way I can get over this if she's still around. This is someone he went to high school with and only recently got back in touch with, so it's not like it's a close friend he's had all these years along. I was skeptical of her to begin with, but I gave her a chance. All she did was prove to me that I was right not to trust her. I don't understand why he can't see that. We fought, and I cried, over this all weekend. I was just getting back to starting to feel normal again. But this on top of all the other issues that I've not completely dealt with, pushed me over the edge. I lost my temper. Big time. And now today I'm sick. Ugh!

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LOBOSMOMMA 4/3/2013 4:14PM

    Thanks ladies. He's still refusing to cut ties with her because "she's going through a hard time right now and needs a friend" So I'm really trying to understand. But I keep going back to the thought that if she really was his friend, she would not have done this. I still wish he'd delete her, but a TINY part of me understands as far as her needing someone. But why does it have to be MY husband?!

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RONDARC 4/1/2013 3:41PM


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PMRUNNER 4/1/2013 2:27PM

    Hugs! Hope he comes around!

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KJELLYBEAN15 4/1/2013 2:02PM

    I am so sorry. I wish I had some wonderful words of comfort for you but I don't know what to say. My husband and I had something similar happen to us many, many years ago. It's hard to think how significant it was when we were experiencing it. What the both of you do now could very well break this relationship. I totally understand where you are and you have every right to be there (!!!) but dont push too much. It just might push him out the door. I will pray for you and your relationship. Much love.

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