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I'm probably whining

Saturday, March 30, 2013

My ex brought our son to visit today, but it didn't go at all well. Ex complained about the burger I made for his lunch, saying it was much too big. This from the man who used to accuse me of starving him. Then they both fell asleep for over an hour while I could only watch them. I can understand it from Frank with his cerebral palsy, but whether I go over to their place or they come here, they got go to sleep and it ends up being no visit at all. Finally Frank vomited his lunch (he's on a feeding tube). I asked Glenn why he hadn't told me Frank was sick, that we could have postponed. It was depressing for all of us.

I'm probably being a baby here. But aside from getting to see Frank, the whole thing was just miserable.
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WALLAHALLA 4/1/2013 2:47PM

    It's always rough when an experience doesn't live up to our anticipation or expectation. I'm glad you at least got to see Frank and spend some time with him. My nephew with cerebral palsy had his 7th surgery this morning. He turns 2 this month, and is still just 19 lbs. Hopefully, he will be able to learn to eat after he recovers.

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MPARKER67 4/1/2013 10:00AM

    Sorry your Easter wasn't all you hoped.

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MRS_TOAD 4/1/2013 8:32AM

    You certainly aren't whining. What a disappointing day. Hope the next visit is better.
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MONETRUBY 3/31/2013 10:50PM

    So sorry to hear that the visit wasn't as good as you'd hoped it would be. I'm glad you got to see your son, though. Hopefully, the next one will be better.

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VHALKYRIE 3/31/2013 8:03PM

    Hope the next visit goes better.

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LINDA! 3/31/2013 5:05PM

    I am sorry to hear that he was ill. Hope he is feeling better soon. emoticon

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MISSG180 3/31/2013 2:26PM

    That is very frustrating and disappointing. Your ex could be doing more to be cooperative. I'm sorry for your a bad day.

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PMFISH 3/31/2013 12:58PM

    Hope your day gets better. Hang it there!

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LIS193 3/31/2013 10:58AM

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BLUE_48 3/31/2013 9:21AM

    It is OK to vent. You are among friends

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OPTIMIST1948 3/31/2013 9:18AM

    Sometimes a little whine/wine is ok. Hugs.

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CAPECODBABE 3/31/2013 7:51AM

    Sorry it didn't go better.


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MARIANNE9855 3/31/2013 6:27AM

    what a disappointing visit- sounds like your ex sets you up to fail but maybe you can hold on to the happy part of seeing your son. emoticon

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THINRONNA 3/31/2013 4:24AM

    I am glad you got to see Frank but it IS too bad the visit was not better. emoticon

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WINDSONG~ 3/31/2013 3:21AM

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NEW-CAZ 3/31/2013 2:29AM

    I'm so sorry the visit was a wash out. I hope Frank feels better today emoticon

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WORKOUTWITHPAM 3/31/2013 1:58AM

    I am glad that you got to see Frank, and I am sorry that it didn't go so well. I hope Frank is feeling better tomorrow.

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Pam

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GLAMNGLOWDIVA 3/31/2013 1:31AM

    I'm sorry that things didn't go well for the visit. ((((((BIG HUGS))))))

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FITANDFIFTY2 3/31/2013 12:24AM

    I am so sorry to hear your visit was so miserable! I hope you have a Better visit next time! Happy Easter to you!! Hugs, Kathy

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CAROLJEAN64 3/30/2013 11:46PM

    I am so glad you got to see Frank and that your ex finally brought him over. Sorry that it didn't go as you hoped.

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NASFKAB 3/30/2013 10:42PM

  sad that Frank was sick hope he is well now hugs

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CIRANDELLA 3/30/2013 10:21PM

    emoticon No, you're not whining in the least. That was one very stressful meal, any way you look at it...my heart goes out to you. Hopefully, Frank will be feeling much better the next time you're able to see him. It was a difficult, sad day for you... tomorrow will be better. emoticon

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MERRYMARY42 3/30/2013 9:44PM

    hope that your next visit is good, and so sorry that your son was sick Happy Easter emoticon

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PURPLESPEDCOW 3/30/2013 9:30PM

    Oh friend that is a miserable visit. Hugs for you. Hope the next visit goes well.

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1CRAZYDOG 3/30/2013 9:18PM

  emoticon emoticon So sorry things went the way they did. **SIGH** At least you got to see Frank, but I can only imagine how depressing it was to have him get ill. ((HUGS))



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