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Thursday, March 28, 2013

I am feeling bloated this afternoon and frustrated. I did go to the gym this afternoon, hoping that working out would help me feel better. I feel more energetic, but still bloated!
I got home and found a package on the kitchen counter. My husband had ordered some products from the company that he works for. I found that he ordered me a shirt. A size MEDIUM!! This would be fine and good... but, I don't wear a medium!!! This is the size that he WANTS me to wear. Now, I feel depressed. emoticon
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    When I first got married my new husband bought me the nicest suit about 3 sizes too small. I was irritated until I found out that is the size he saw me as. Then I loved him for it. I bet any other day you would have laughed it off but not today when you were already not feeling well. Take a deep breath. Give your husband a kiss and know that tomorrow is another day.
    1663 days ago
    Maybe he sees you as a medium. don't be upset by it. try drinking water I know it's hard when you already feel bloated.

    1663 days ago
    Ahh, I am sorry you feel this way. I think your husband had good intentions when he got you that shirt. Maybe he sees that you are working so hard to get to your goal and this was meant to be an insentive. Don't get down. We all have days or even weeks like this. Mine's coming up next week Im sure. Just know that your hubby loves you and may just be trying to help. God bless you and stay strong. emoticon Have a great Day!!!! emoticon
    1664 days ago
    Maybe you should look at as that being the size he thinks you wear. I've found that a lot of men have absolutely no concept of sizes. My ex husband would hand me a size 10 on a regular basis (I WISH I WAS A 10!) not to be mean, but because he really thought that was what I would wear.
    1664 days ago
    those feelings come out of blue sometime, don't they?,,,try to rearrange your thoughts to make that wrong size shirt a friend somehow instead of a foe...I know, hard to do, but SO WORTH IT when we find ways to make huge mountains seem like little ant hills! emoticon Hope to see you emoticon soon!
    1664 days ago
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