Wednesday, March 27, 2013
I love my dogs, but they frustrate me and stress me out more than anything at times. Why? Because they sometimes argue and when I say argue, I mean fight. I hate using that word! Ninety eight percent of the time, they are best buds!
I have been crying and stressed now since last night. My golden, for reasons I cannot figure out, jumped on my yellow lab. There was very little damage done this time, but the stress of this is trying.
So, what to do??? My poor lab
She lives in fear of our golden. You can see it in her body language (which may not help the situation as the golden seems to sense it). I am to the point where we are considering finding a home for our lab. Our golden has cancer, so finding a home for her is out of the question. And if you are wondering....the cancer probably has nothing to do with this (we have asked both our trainer and our vet).
I want to believe that I can work thru this, I want to believe that things will be ok! But we can't afford any more vet bills and the uncertainty is wearing on me. I LOVE MY DOGS!!! I wouldn't get rid of my kid for misbehaving, so why should I do the same for the dogs???
I took our lab for 3 miles this morning followed by another 3 miles with my golden separately. While that is good for me, it's not good for them. I don't want to keep them separated
Ugh!!! What do I do??? Help!!