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Learning To Accept Myself...

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Yesterday I watched a video of my wedding. It was 10 yrs ago next month. In it, I weighed over 350 pounds. Every time I see myself in that video I cry and how I let myself get that large. I cry for person I was. However, I know for a fact, it was indeed one of the happiest days of my life!

I think we are always harder on ourselves than on others. I found myself being harder on that happy girl in the video, than I would EVER be on friends who are overweight. If they were I So why is that? It baffles me. I would NEVER treat them they way I am treating myself. It is time for me to stop being so hard on who I was in the past, accept myself for where I am now and my journey and move forward. I need to be a good example to my daughter, my husband and all the people I want to help in the future.

I would say that this is helping me to turn a different corner on the path of my journey and look at things in a new way. I need to live in the present, not in the past. I've heard this several times in my life. But I think it affects me the most right now in this new discovery. It is time to make the most of my present so I can be the best me I can be for my future.



I WILL do what this says starting now! It's important to live life to the fullest TODAY. We are not promised tomorrow!


Oh this is perfect for how I am feeling today. Accepting me for where I am in this moment. I WILL do this! How about you?!?!?!?
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  • v FLUTTER-BY)L(
    I agree so much with what you have written. I have asked myself why I am so hard on myself. I would talk much nicer to a friend. i need to be my own friend. I am glad you are making that change too.

    Excellent Blog emoticon
    1155 days ago
  • v LOOZINITNOW
    Love this! You have grown so much as a person in the last 10 years. You are worthy of so much! Keep loving yourself! emoticon
    1155 days ago
  • v PINKNFITCARLA
    Great blog Simone! You are definitely worth it and you deserve to be supportive to yourself like you are to everyone else! emoticon
    1156 days ago
  • v MESEATURTLE
    Be proud of every step u take towards the goal....i like!!!
    1156 days ago
  • v BABY_GIRL69
    You have to enjoy the journey...God bless, Dee
    1156 days ago
  • v LESLIES537
    Yes, you WILL do this! This I'm sure of! I've never met any one as passionate, strong-willed, and determined as you are! Be gentle to yourself and treat yourself with the same compassion as you do everyone else. It's your time to shine babygirl. Shine ON! emoticon emoticon
    1156 days ago
  • v MRSSHANNONC1970
    WOW that was really well written! I am so hard on myself and I cant get past it. I am never happy with how I look and I am by far a lot smaller now then I was on years past. My hang up is that I am 30 pounds more now then I was 3 years ago. Your post hit home, because I too would not judge others like I judge myself. I wish I could take your advice and follow it, but that's so hard for me, but Ill read this over and over and hope it sinks in somewhere...
    I admire you!
    1156 days ago
  • v BE-THE-CHANGE
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  • v FLGIRL_4EVER
    Already commented on FB, but wanted you to know that I am so proud of you! You are worth being supportive to yourself. You are beautiful on the inside and outside. Love ya!
    1156 days ago
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