Sunday, March 17, 2013
ya know, somedays someone should just send you a memo and tell you how the day is going to go- lol but i cannot complain, i have lost 5 lbs and am making so many amazing friends)- the best part is that i am communicating with people that actually understand- that have walked that road and know where all the pot holes are and where all the great sights are too- and do you know what one of the hardest things to overcome for me is? The people around you- maybe they don't need or want to be healthier, but they do not really encourage and sometimes make it very hard to stay on track- or my sweet hubby will cook for me and its not a salad- lol i know that food has always been a way to show love, to comfort, nurture, and as a mom i so know that by making my children great meals gave me such a happiness, i may not be able to help with other issues ( or i'm the last person they want to talk to certain things about) but taking time to give them a wholesome meal is always such a good feeling cuse at least youre doing something!!!
Noone does anything intentionally and you know their hearts are in the right place- but maybe by making it clear that going out and getting those amazing bagles you love, that you so appreciate the gesture, but my health is the most important thing to me right now- aside form whomever you're talking to, of course and it would be so wonderful and loving of them to be your partner and help by feeding other things that you like- like taking a walk holding hands together, or just walk around the mall window shopping- or buying you flowers or taking them to their favorite events and spending the time enjoying each other- you kinda kill two birds with one stone- you get to spend quality time together and your not eating those oh so tempting bagels!
Love can be shown in so many different ways, and i know that even though those bagels ard soooo killer, spending time with my loved ones and really enjoying the day fill me up so much more!!!!
Hugs to all and God Bless!!!!