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All Is Well That Ends Well....

Saturday, March 16, 2013

This picture of Mom was taken after I had been there a week or more.

Yes it has been a while since I wrote a blog....life happens.

Christmas found me sick with the upper respiratory and sinus infection. I doctored it myself with over the counter medication and all the good things like chicken soup, fluids and sleep. I was just getting well enough to get something done when I got a call from my sister Liz, who told me Mom had been taken to the hospital with a high fever. At the time that was all she knew. With blood work and test they diagnosed she had a urinary tract infection and it was also in her blood stream....they started her on IV's with high doses of antibiotics. Within a few days she called again and said Mom was doing better.....then the very next day she was worse...with Congestive heart failure...and infection in her lungs. Liz had talked to the Nurses and they felt the family needed to be called in....

I called my Daughter...we made a quick trip to West Virginia and arrived two days later,Sunday evening. Mom looked pretty sick with dark circles around her eyes...she was not talking much but when we walked through the door...she said, "Well there you are ".

Someone stayed with her around the clock....either Liz, Deb, or I. Lots of the time all three would be in the room with her. The hospital was nice enough to give us a room with two beds so we had a place to rest when things were going well. Mom was improving daily. There was still a problem at night with her blood pressure spiking during the night. Over and over this happened .....changing her medication till finally it was under control. I was altogether in West Virginia for two months Part of January, February and a few days of March. I watch go from not being able to get out of bed or feed herself to walking down the length of the hall...all in a matter of two weeks. She was dismissed from the hospital to her assisted living home...and I was able to visit her there.

I know that prayer had a lot to do with her healing.....Mom is 83 years old and had two very serious infections. Either of them could have ended her life.....but by the Grace of God....she is still with us.

This picture of Mom was taken before I left for home.

A couple of weeks before I came home the crud hit me again. I doctored myself for a week but went to the Doctor and he gave me antibiotics. I was well enough to visit Mom the next week. Beth flew up to help drive back with my grandson Jake...

One of the hardest things was to leave her and come back home.....but she is in good hands and my place is here in my home taking care of things ...especially Hubby.

I had lost 4 pounds.....it was either the cold weather or climbing my sisters steps. I lost 2 more since I have been home.
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    I'm so glad that she as able to recover and also that you were able to be there for her! What a blessing! I'm so sorry though that you have been sick so much. Hope you feel better soon.
    1796 days ago
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    You are a good daughter and have good siblings... emoticon
    1797 days ago
    It's terrific that your Mom is doing well now! Now - you take care of you and Hubby!
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    1798 days ago
    So happy to hear your Mom is well! Glad you are doing better too! God has certainly been with both of you! My Mom is 89, and I cherish each day. We are very blessed!
    Congrats on losing the weight! emoticon
    1799 days ago
    emoticon Cherish the love you share with your Mom, Hubby and yourself. Your Mother is beautiful.
    1799 days ago
    emoticon Glad your mom is better , and congrats on the weight loss!
    1799 days ago
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