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Just Not My Weekend I Guess...

Sunday, March 10, 2013

So, today apparently wasn't much better than yesterday. I'm sure it would've been great if I had just stayed locked in my dorm room all day, but I needed to wash my clothes so I left for the future in-laws. Now, I love my in-laws. They are just wonderful people. I guess today was just a wrong-side-of-the-bed day! Every time I talk to anyone about the wedding my blood just starts to boil. I can't explain it, but it does. Maybe it's because everyone from everywhere keeps offering their opinions on what I should and shouldn't do. Really, I just want everyone to shut up. I know what on earth I am doing. I don't mind general advice. But there's a difference between advice and your two cents! UGH! I'm just ready for all this wedding crap to be over with! I just want to marry the guy and spend the rest of my life with him! Is that really too much to ask?!?!


"For am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ." ~Galatians 1:10 (ESV)

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SHEENADEE 3/11/2013 7:25PM

    I'm sorry folks are making your blood boil Hang in there!

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ISAVEDME80 3/11/2013 5:19PM

    I do not know how active you are on here or if you are already in them or not but there are some groups on here for brides to be, maybe talking with others who are experiencing the same as you will help you?
Just a thought.
I hope things settle down for you, you just cant seem to catch a break the last few days. hang in.

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KALLIE1958AR 3/11/2013 9:59AM

    hmm It is hard to get past all that but look at the day you are married and stay focused .. That will be your most awesome day since getting born again .. I pray all goes well and straightens out for you .. you could elope hehehe love you emoticon

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HA_MONICA83 3/11/2013 7:21AM

    emoticon Aw, I remember for my sister it was hard for her too...i think what you're experiencing is perfectly normal (even though that prob isn't very comforting)...though I've never been a bride to be...but my sister was, and she made it through and you will too :) Cheering you on. Keep standing up for yourself and praying to God for grace and love as you do! emoticon

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GOLFGMA 3/11/2013 6:50AM

    You can thank them for their concern but it is your wedding and you can make your own plans. Most who have been married probably wish they had done something different and are trying to give you advice they didn't know to do at that time. Give them a little slack, but, do it your way!

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ANGIE_MAC7 3/11/2013 6:12AM

    You're right, people are just trying to be helpful, but it can get really annoying, you get to where you don't even want to share your excitement of your upcoming wedding for fear of them offering advice. Hang in there though, and don't let it stifle your excitement! And stick to your guns! It's your wedding, and you know what you want! It'll be here before you know it, and you can start your new life with the man you love!

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SISTERPRETTY 3/10/2013 11:35PM

    Amen! I love that scripture. emoticon on your upcoming nuptials...all the extra nagging will be over soon... emoticon

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