Wow! I was just told by the guy I been dating for the past two years that the only reason I want to loose weight and tone my body is so I can attract other guys.

Seriously, where the heck did that come from and who in their right mind would want to go on a life long journey to impress someone they haven't even met yet. Or even if that phantom person is out there at all.

He completely floored me with that comment. Needless to say, I handed him his jacket and told him to go home and not come back.

I simply refuse to put up with that type of thing from anyone. I may be over weight and my self esteem may not be that great, but one thing I do know - no one deserves to be treated like that. Everyone should be shown respect for who they are. I am a very compassionate, caring person and I want to be treated the way I treat others.

I would also like to thank Spark People for the great advice I've been reading for the past few days. Without it I never would have gotten rid of the junk food-instead I'd be sitting on my sofa with it while having a pitty party for myself.

This may not be the proper place to rant about this subject but it's sure helping me feel better. I just hope I didn't offend anyone by writting this.

I just can't understand how he could go from being so nice to a total jerk just because I want to live a health life style.